Some of the worst words a teacher can here are...summer vacation is over. It hurts to say it. It hurts to think it. Don't get me wrong. I like what I do. I appreciate the fact that I am lucky to have a job, especially with what seems like billions of teachers losing theirs. Still, summer vacation is my favorite time of year. I love the peace of knowing I can go at my own pace, I am stress-free, and have much more time for personal enjoyment.
All good things must come to an end. This is my last week of summer vacation, and the hurried pace has already begun. The part time job I've had this summer has all of a sudden provided full time work. And I need to make some preparations before going back to school on Monday.
However, all is not lost. I have sworn to myself that I will be a much better time manager when school starts. Yes, I've said this before, and it seems like I became worse. This time is different. A while ago I shared a great tip from an author about time management. He suggested breaking the day into 15 minute chunks of time. 15 minutes is enough to accomplish something, and short enough to get back on track if we stray. When we consciously focus on those 15 minute bits of time and plan accordingly, it is amazing how much more we can get done. After a while it becomes habit.
What's to gain? First, we are least likely to procrastinate. The result is then peace of mind. Remember how positive you feel when the to-do list is taken care of? This instead of the stress you feel when it's not, and you have those uncompleted tasks clogging your mind. Also, when the necessary things are done, you will find that you have more time to enjoy yourself and do those fun things you've been putting off. You can't lose!
As I said, all good things must come to an end. However, the time management lessons I learn over the next few weeks could be the start of great things. I challenge anyone else to take this same step. Break your day into 15 minute sections. Try to accomplish something in each of them. I definitely believe it will help you as it helps me when I stay disciplined with this approach.
Have an excellent day!
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Can Money Fall From Trees?
I wrote a blog post the other day about maintaining the correct mindset to bring more money into your life. In that post I said that, even though the thought process must be right, one must take necessary action because money doesn't just fall from trees. Well, I may have lied.
When we have the correct mindset about money, interesting things happen. Today when I went through our incoming mail, I found a letter addressed to my wife and I. There was no return address. Inside was an anonymous note saying we may need some help with school supplies. This along with two $100 bills.
My thoughts about money have been good lately. Was it my thoughts that brought the money to me? Partially. As I mentioned in that previous blog (see "A Free Way To Increase Your Income), when we pray and maintain correct thoughts it helps develop the faith necessary for miracles. Along with correct thinking, I believe it is important to know who this money was from. Not so much the human individual. I will probably never know who sent this. I have some ideas, but the people I'm thinking of would be too humble to ever admit they sent it and would never tell. Regardless, I have asked God to bless whoever it is a thousand times over. I know He will do that. Speaking of God, I credit Him for this blessing. I believe it was His idea in the first place, and He planted the idea and resources into my mysterious blesser's hands. I have not stopped thanking Him all day.
Based on my faithful thoughts, I expected to receive some extra money. I did not expect to receive it this way. That's the cool thing about God's miracles. We often receive them in ways we would never expect.
The last thing I will say about this is the wonderful snowball effect this action has. The giver is blessed by God for his/her actions. I have certainly been blessed. Now I am inspired to do the same for others. When I see someone with similar needs, I will be more inclined to share my money, time, and talents. They will then be blessed at that time. And hopefully, others will be blessed and inspired simply by reading this, and then bless others by sharing it with them.
So...when you are near the trees, look up! You never know what might be falling from them. Enjoy the blessings : )
When we have the correct mindset about money, interesting things happen. Today when I went through our incoming mail, I found a letter addressed to my wife and I. There was no return address. Inside was an anonymous note saying we may need some help with school supplies. This along with two $100 bills.
My thoughts about money have been good lately. Was it my thoughts that brought the money to me? Partially. As I mentioned in that previous blog (see "A Free Way To Increase Your Income), when we pray and maintain correct thoughts it helps develop the faith necessary for miracles. Along with correct thinking, I believe it is important to know who this money was from. Not so much the human individual. I will probably never know who sent this. I have some ideas, but the people I'm thinking of would be too humble to ever admit they sent it and would never tell. Regardless, I have asked God to bless whoever it is a thousand times over. I know He will do that. Speaking of God, I credit Him for this blessing. I believe it was His idea in the first place, and He planted the idea and resources into my mysterious blesser's hands. I have not stopped thanking Him all day.
Based on my faithful thoughts, I expected to receive some extra money. I did not expect to receive it this way. That's the cool thing about God's miracles. We often receive them in ways we would never expect.
The last thing I will say about this is the wonderful snowball effect this action has. The giver is blessed by God for his/her actions. I have certainly been blessed. Now I am inspired to do the same for others. When I see someone with similar needs, I will be more inclined to share my money, time, and talents. They will then be blessed at that time. And hopefully, others will be blessed and inspired simply by reading this, and then bless others by sharing it with them.
So...when you are near the trees, look up! You never know what might be falling from them. Enjoy the blessings : )
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
No Such Thing As Impossible
I was listening to a great song by the Christian music group Kutless. It's called "What Faith Can Do". It's a very inspirational song about the power of faith.
I've heard this song many times, but especially noticed one of the lines in the song for the first time. It says.."impossible is not a word. It's just a reason for someone not to try".
I don't know about you, but I procrastinate more than I should. I find that many of the times I do, it's because I'm afraid of failing or I'm not exactly sure that things will turn out right. Instead, if I demonstrated the faith I say I have, I would know that all things are possible, and I would be much quicker to act.
I remind myself, and anyone reading this....nothing is impossible!!! The key Bible verse says, with God all things are possible. Remember this next time you think of putting something off, especially a goal, a dream, or anything that will bring more positivty into your world.
Knowing that impossible is not a word, don't use it as an excuse to not try or to delay necessary actions. Instead, have faith and act accordingly. God will make all things possible and guide you every step of the way. Then you will see great things happen. As the main theme of the Kutless song says..."that's what faith can do". Enjoy the blessings!
Monday, August 8, 2011
A Free Way To Increase Your Income
Are you someone who is looking to make money online? It is my dream to make an excellent living from the comfort of my own home, and I strongly believe it will happen one day.
There are a billion ads online advertising ways to make increase your income. Many seem like they could work. The problem is, in almost all cases, you have to pay a fee to buy a program or get the magic formula. I know you have to spend money to make money, but if I spent it on all of these opportunities I would go broke instead of making the money I am looking for.
I will say that there is a free way to increase your income, and it doesn't take much effort. In fact, you can have lots of fun with this. Are you ready?.....
As I continue to read and study the mind and its power, I see more and more how we can use our minds to accomplish anything. This is not something that one book says. I have read about 30 (and counting), and they ALL say it!! Even the greatest book of all, the Bible, clearly outlines benefits of positive thoughts.
So how can just thinking about money bring it to you? From what I'm reading, it's a subconscious thing. You may be thinking...so money is going to fall from the sky just because I am thinking about it? I wish it was that easy. However, the more we see ourselves with the money in our imagination, the more likely we are to see it show up in our lives. It's not about willing it into our lives. It's not about figuring out how we can keep it all to ourselves. And it's not about just sittting around waiting for it. It is about generating good, positive feelings about money. It is about figuring out how we will use it to bless ourselves and others. And it is about developing faith and taking necessary action according to that faith.
Faith is exactly what happens when we think positive thoughts about money, or anything. I shared recently that faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things unseen. I wrote that our thoughts are substance, and our desires are things hoped for. When we see money in our imagination, we are creating that evidence. Remember that our subconscious cannot tell the difference between what is real or imagined. The more you imagine it, the more you start to believe you can have it. Once you have that faith, pray for and seek opportunities to make it happen. Be sure to act immediately on the answers and guidance you receive from your intuition. I believe that intuition is the voice of God guiding and directing you.
I have seen this work in my own life. As I rid myself of negative money thoughts, and replace them with postive ones, I gradually see more money coming into my life. The more I maintain these positive thoughts, the more opportunities I receive. The same is true for anyone.
So instead of paying for those money-making opportunities and hoping they work out, see yourself as the prosperous person you want to be. Mentally experience the great things it will bring. Imagine the blessing you can be to the people in your life. Then act on the opportunities that inevitably follow. The more you keep these positive thoughts in your head, the faster you will see the results you are looking for. How much does this wonderful opportunity cost? It's free!
Enjoy the blessings!!
There are a billion ads online advertising ways to make increase your income. Many seem like they could work. The problem is, in almost all cases, you have to pay a fee to buy a program or get the magic formula. I know you have to spend money to make money, but if I spent it on all of these opportunities I would go broke instead of making the money I am looking for.
I will say that there is a free way to increase your income, and it doesn't take much effort. In fact, you can have lots of fun with this. Are you ready?.....
As I continue to read and study the mind and its power, I see more and more how we can use our minds to accomplish anything. This is not something that one book says. I have read about 30 (and counting), and they ALL say it!! Even the greatest book of all, the Bible, clearly outlines benefits of positive thoughts.
So how can just thinking about money bring it to you? From what I'm reading, it's a subconscious thing. You may be thinking...so money is going to fall from the sky just because I am thinking about it? I wish it was that easy. However, the more we see ourselves with the money in our imagination, the more likely we are to see it show up in our lives. It's not about willing it into our lives. It's not about figuring out how we can keep it all to ourselves. And it's not about just sittting around waiting for it. It is about generating good, positive feelings about money. It is about figuring out how we will use it to bless ourselves and others. And it is about developing faith and taking necessary action according to that faith.
Faith is exactly what happens when we think positive thoughts about money, or anything. I shared recently that faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things unseen. I wrote that our thoughts are substance, and our desires are things hoped for. When we see money in our imagination, we are creating that evidence. Remember that our subconscious cannot tell the difference between what is real or imagined. The more you imagine it, the more you start to believe you can have it. Once you have that faith, pray for and seek opportunities to make it happen. Be sure to act immediately on the answers and guidance you receive from your intuition. I believe that intuition is the voice of God guiding and directing you.
I have seen this work in my own life. As I rid myself of negative money thoughts, and replace them with postive ones, I gradually see more money coming into my life. The more I maintain these positive thoughts, the more opportunities I receive. The same is true for anyone.
So instead of paying for those money-making opportunities and hoping they work out, see yourself as the prosperous person you want to be. Mentally experience the great things it will bring. Imagine the blessing you can be to the people in your life. Then act on the opportunities that inevitably follow. The more you keep these positive thoughts in your head, the faster you will see the results you are looking for. How much does this wonderful opportunity cost? It's free!
Enjoy the blessings!!
Sunday, August 7, 2011
A Way To Benefit From The Past
I often write on this site about the importance of focusing on the present instead of the past. However, I do a little mental exercise every once in a while that does focus on past events. I find it very helpful.
We often focus on the negatives of our past. The mistakes we've made; the people we've let down; the could have, should haves. However, for each of us, there are events in our past we are proud of. The times we've accomplished the goal; people we've helped; the successes. It is these that I focus on.
Sometimes I like to play a little game. I am very good at associating songs with the time of my life that they were popular. The game is, when a song comes on the radio, I bring myself back to that time of my life and re-live what I was doing, what I was feeling, who I was with, etc. It is very powerful, as I actually re-live some of those feelings, especially as I review some of the happier times of my life.
I recommend this activity (or something like it) to anyone. Remember a time in your life when things were good and you were extra positive and successful. Then feel the joy and positive emotions again as you re-live it. With this activity some may say I am going against my philosophy and I am living in the past again. If so, I understand. The key is to bring those same feelings to the present, and maintain them. This is especially true if you are having more negative feelings during these prsent days.
As we maintain positive emotions, we see positive events in our lives and receive positive feedback from those around us. We may not experience the same successes as in the past, but we receive new ones instead. Sometimes the new ones are even more rewarding.
The bottom line is that, when we maintain positive emotions, our overall life turns out that way. This exercise helps us use the past to do so. Instead of using the past to remind you of your past mistakes, use it to remind yourself of the confidence and power that is within you. Know that you can use it as much today as you did in your glory days. If you maintain positive emotions, these present days can be called your glory days. Enjoy the blessings : )
We often focus on the negatives of our past. The mistakes we've made; the people we've let down; the could have, should haves. However, for each of us, there are events in our past we are proud of. The times we've accomplished the goal; people we've helped; the successes. It is these that I focus on.
Sometimes I like to play a little game. I am very good at associating songs with the time of my life that they were popular. The game is, when a song comes on the radio, I bring myself back to that time of my life and re-live what I was doing, what I was feeling, who I was with, etc. It is very powerful, as I actually re-live some of those feelings, especially as I review some of the happier times of my life.
I recommend this activity (or something like it) to anyone. Remember a time in your life when things were good and you were extra positive and successful. Then feel the joy and positive emotions again as you re-live it. With this activity some may say I am going against my philosophy and I am living in the past again. If so, I understand. The key is to bring those same feelings to the present, and maintain them. This is especially true if you are having more negative feelings during these prsent days.
As we maintain positive emotions, we see positive events in our lives and receive positive feedback from those around us. We may not experience the same successes as in the past, but we receive new ones instead. Sometimes the new ones are even more rewarding.
The bottom line is that, when we maintain positive emotions, our overall life turns out that way. This exercise helps us use the past to do so. Instead of using the past to remind you of your past mistakes, use it to remind yourself of the confidence and power that is within you. Know that you can use it as much today as you did in your glory days. If you maintain positive emotions, these present days can be called your glory days. Enjoy the blessings : )
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Drilling Positive Messages Into Your Head
There are several keys to maintaining a positive attitude. One is to keep reminding yourself of the power and confidence you have. The problem with that is that often a small (or sometimes big) voice immediately comes back and says..."no you're not!" Then you are right back where you started.
How do you combat that negative voice? I have found subliminal messages very helpful. They work because the positive messages bypass the negative voice and go straight to the subconscious. As a result, the desired attittudes dominate your mind instead of the negative ones.
Here's an example of a positive video that's helped me. Enjoy!
http://youtu.be/qcY9ruWCtEs
How do you combat that negative voice? I have found subliminal messages very helpful. They work because the positive messages bypass the negative voice and go straight to the subconscious. As a result, the desired attittudes dominate your mind instead of the negative ones.
Here's an example of a positive video that's helped me. Enjoy!
http://youtu.be/qcY9ruWCtEs
Friday, August 5, 2011
Is It Really Good To Be Generous?
We all admire people who are generous. Generosity is an admirable quality because it is in indication of a person putting others ahead of themselves. However, does it get us anywhere? Does it really make a difference? After all, it is not easy to sacrifice our own needs to focus on the needs of others. And sometimes there is a price to pay.
This information may answer the question. 2 Corinthians 9:6-7 says: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not relunctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
This verse sums it up well. The more willing we are to be generous, the more we will see it in our own lives. However, if we read on, we will see that there are further benefits. Verses 10-11 say...Now He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God.
What does this mean? It tells me that the more generous one is, the more God will provide. God is already able to trust us with what He gives us, and will give us more because He knows we will be generous with that as well. The best part of this whole concept to me is that, by being generous, we glorify God. We bring attention to Him and potentially attract others to Him because our generosity is noticed!
If you are looking to make your Father proud and have positive impacts on His kingdom, then share as much as you can with others. And it doesn't always have to be money. It can be your time, talents, and smile. Anything that you give to others makes a difference. Either way, it's a win-win situation. The people in your life benefit from your generosity, and your own life is showered with blessings.
Knowing this, see what kind of a difference you can make today. Enjoy the blessings : )
This information may answer the question. 2 Corinthians 9:6-7 says: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not relunctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
This verse sums it up well. The more willing we are to be generous, the more we will see it in our own lives. However, if we read on, we will see that there are further benefits. Verses 10-11 say...Now He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God.
What does this mean? It tells me that the more generous one is, the more God will provide. God is already able to trust us with what He gives us, and will give us more because He knows we will be generous with that as well. The best part of this whole concept to me is that, by being generous, we glorify God. We bring attention to Him and potentially attract others to Him because our generosity is noticed!
If you are looking to make your Father proud and have positive impacts on His kingdom, then share as much as you can with others. And it doesn't always have to be money. It can be your time, talents, and smile. Anything that you give to others makes a difference. Either way, it's a win-win situation. The people in your life benefit from your generosity, and your own life is showered with blessings.
Knowing this, see what kind of a difference you can make today. Enjoy the blessings : )
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Moving On
This entry is basically a continuation from yesterday's. It was a bit of a difficult day. However, do I dwell on it? No way!
If I know what's good for me, I'm moving on. I learn from the mistakes, but I am not dwelling on them. Instead, there are plenty of things to accomplish today, and plenty of blessings to be received. It's those positives I focus on today.
When we dwell on our past mistakes, it's like running in the ocean, against the waves. You may take a few steps forward, but you won't get far, and you'll be completely worn out. You may even end up being pushed backwards and lose ground. Instead, when you let go of those past mistakes and focus on God's positive energy, that energy is like floating in a downstream current. With very little effort, you are carried towards your goal, getting there much faster.
Let us move on today...with the flow!! Enjoy the blessings when you get there : )
If I know what's good for me, I'm moving on. I learn from the mistakes, but I am not dwelling on them. Instead, there are plenty of things to accomplish today, and plenty of blessings to be received. It's those positives I focus on today.
When we dwell on our past mistakes, it's like running in the ocean, against the waves. You may take a few steps forward, but you won't get far, and you'll be completely worn out. You may even end up being pushed backwards and lose ground. Instead, when you let go of those past mistakes and focus on God's positive energy, that energy is like floating in a downstream current. With very little effort, you are carried towards your goal, getting there much faster.
Let us move on today...with the flow!! Enjoy the blessings when you get there : )
Monday, August 1, 2011
Gone and Forgotten
Did you ever experience a day with lots of promise, but it doesn't quite turn out that way? And there is no one to blame for it but yourself?
I experienced a day like that today. Nothing major, just some mistakes made and opportunities missed.
The positive part about it, is that I caught the mistakes right away. As soon as I did, I prayed to God for forgiveness. When I did that, I immediately felt a re-assuring calm. My mistakes were gone at that moment. Will I make them again? If I'm honest I'll say maybe. Or even probably. Regardless, the mistakes I made today are gone and forgotten by God. Forever.
Is it really this simple? I answer with a definite yes. The only complications are the ones we add. This basic verse says it...“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9). It's up to us to ask. The rest is taken care of by God.
It is up to us to learn from our mistakes and try to avoid doing them again in the future. However, why should we continue to dwell on them and affect our present happiness when God has already forgotten our shortcomings? Instead, let us learn and move on, instead focusing on success. If we do, we are more likely to experience that success.
Have a great day : )
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I experienced a day like that today. Nothing major, just some mistakes made and opportunities missed.
The positive part about it, is that I caught the mistakes right away. As soon as I did, I prayed to God for forgiveness. When I did that, I immediately felt a re-assuring calm. My mistakes were gone at that moment. Will I make them again? If I'm honest I'll say maybe. Or even probably. Regardless, the mistakes I made today are gone and forgotten by God. Forever.
Is it really this simple? I answer with a definite yes. The only complications are the ones we add. This basic verse says it...“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9). It's up to us to ask. The rest is taken care of by God.
It is up to us to learn from our mistakes and try to avoid doing them again in the future. However, why should we continue to dwell on them and affect our present happiness when God has already forgotten our shortcomings? Instead, let us learn and move on, instead focusing on success. If we do, we are more likely to experience that success.
Have a great day : )
As a way to rapidly manifest your desires and reach the success you are craving, I recommend this free e-book...
The Ease and Keys of Rapid Manifestation
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Faithful Thoughts
There is much information available about how our thoughts can impact our lives and help us realize our goals and desires. Some people are very successful in doing so, while others say they try to use their thoughts for good things in life, but they still don't see the results. What's the missing ingredient?
In many cases, it is faith. I know because I have struggled in this area sometimes. My question then is, how does one develop their faith? After all, God Himself says He who lacks faith should not expect to receive anything from the Lord (James 1:7). I have found that prayer is one good way. God has responded when I have gone to Him admitting my lack of faith and asking for help in that area. Another way to increase faith is to focus on some of the inspirational verses in the Bible.
Another great technique I have seen recently is actually using our thoughts to develop our faith. Faith is described in the Bible as the substance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things unseen (Hebrews 11:1). When we focus on a thought, we are actually creating a substance of something hoped for. And when we see something in our imagination, it can be considered as evidence of something unseen. Put this together, and you have faith!
How do we use this to empower our lives? First of all, I read more and more how our subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a real or imagined experience. The more it sees something happening, even if it's just in the imagination, the more you believe it to be true. By doing this consistently, and remaining focused on those positive thoughts, you will eventually live accordingly, and eventually receive what you are seeking. When we do this consistently, we are not only thinking good, positive thoughts, but we are also adding that faith element to it. With this combination, only great things can happen.
Try spending some quiet time each day reflecting on the ideal life. However, you want your life to be, imagine the experience as it is already happening. Feel the feelings of joy as if you were actually receiving the money you need, the job you are seeking, the ideal relationship, or the perfect weight. It's all you have to do. Keep seeing it every day until it actually occurs. Create that substance of what you hope for, and the evidence of your realized desire. This, besides prayer and any necessary action is you playing your part. When you pray, you are asking God to do His part, which He will gladly do according to His will. Before long, your goals will be manifested. If it's not exactly as you imagined, or as fast as you would like that's ok. It usually means God has something better, or some things need to fall in place first. Either way, you can't lose.
This method has worked for me, especially lately. I recommend you try this formula and use it in your own life if you are not already. Then...enjoy the blessings : )
In many cases, it is faith. I know because I have struggled in this area sometimes. My question then is, how does one develop their faith? After all, God Himself says He who lacks faith should not expect to receive anything from the Lord (James 1:7). I have found that prayer is one good way. God has responded when I have gone to Him admitting my lack of faith and asking for help in that area. Another way to increase faith is to focus on some of the inspirational verses in the Bible.
Another great technique I have seen recently is actually using our thoughts to develop our faith. Faith is described in the Bible as the substance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things unseen (Hebrews 11:1). When we focus on a thought, we are actually creating a substance of something hoped for. And when we see something in our imagination, it can be considered as evidence of something unseen. Put this together, and you have faith!
How do we use this to empower our lives? First of all, I read more and more how our subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a real or imagined experience. The more it sees something happening, even if it's just in the imagination, the more you believe it to be true. By doing this consistently, and remaining focused on those positive thoughts, you will eventually live accordingly, and eventually receive what you are seeking. When we do this consistently, we are not only thinking good, positive thoughts, but we are also adding that faith element to it. With this combination, only great things can happen.
Try spending some quiet time each day reflecting on the ideal life. However, you want your life to be, imagine the experience as it is already happening. Feel the feelings of joy as if you were actually receiving the money you need, the job you are seeking, the ideal relationship, or the perfect weight. It's all you have to do. Keep seeing it every day until it actually occurs. Create that substance of what you hope for, and the evidence of your realized desire. This, besides prayer and any necessary action is you playing your part. When you pray, you are asking God to do His part, which He will gladly do according to His will. Before long, your goals will be manifested. If it's not exactly as you imagined, or as fast as you would like that's ok. It usually means God has something better, or some things need to fall in place first. Either way, you can't lose.
This method has worked for me, especially lately. I recommend you try this formula and use it in your own life if you are not already. Then...enjoy the blessings : )
Saturday, July 30, 2011
What Is There To be Happy About?
I am reading a great deal lately about the importance of gratitude. The information consistently says that, the more we are happy and thankful for what we already have, the happier we will feel. We are also more likely to continue to receive more of what makes us happy.
The question is..what do we have in our lives to be happy about? For some, answers come easily. This is not the case for others. I saw a book in the store today called "14,000 Things To Be Happy About". It talked about the big things, like family and friends. However, to get that many things to be happy about, you have to dig deep. They did, and mentioned things like cool breezes, supermarkets, bookstores, etc. It's a great idea, but there can't be 14,000 things to be happy about. Is it possible?
This is where I have to disagree with the author. There cannot be 14,000 ways. Instead, I believe...there must be more!! When I think about this further, the things that make me happy are (or should be) unlimited. The key to achieving this happiness is to find as many ways as possible to be happy, and finding as many things as possible to be thankful for. As this book showed, we can be thankful for the smallest of things. I find that, when I am thankful for even the smallest things, those little things that get under my skin, don't quite get to me. Those little pains in the neck aren't felt so much any more.
It is very true. The more gratitude we show, the happier we are. Let us focus on the things (big and small) we can be thankful for. As a result, we will see more of them in our lives. Enjoy the blessings : )
The question is..what do we have in our lives to be happy about? For some, answers come easily. This is not the case for others. I saw a book in the store today called "14,000 Things To Be Happy About". It talked about the big things, like family and friends. However, to get that many things to be happy about, you have to dig deep. They did, and mentioned things like cool breezes, supermarkets, bookstores, etc. It's a great idea, but there can't be 14,000 things to be happy about. Is it possible?
This is where I have to disagree with the author. There cannot be 14,000 ways. Instead, I believe...there must be more!! When I think about this further, the things that make me happy are (or should be) unlimited. The key to achieving this happiness is to find as many ways as possible to be happy, and finding as many things as possible to be thankful for. As this book showed, we can be thankful for the smallest of things. I find that, when I am thankful for even the smallest things, those little things that get under my skin, don't quite get to me. Those little pains in the neck aren't felt so much any more.
It is very true. The more gratitude we show, the happier we are. Let us focus on the things (big and small) we can be thankful for. As a result, we will see more of them in our lives. Enjoy the blessings : )
Friday, July 29, 2011
How To Bring Out the Best In Others
In every area of our lives, we want to see the best in the people around us. This is true in relationships with our spouse, kids, and parents. At our job with our boss, those that work for us, or our customers. Or anywhere else we deal with people.
How do we experience the best in others? I've made a list of some effective practices I've learned from my reading, and from my own experience. Notice how they are all actions that WE take:
Love and appreciate them.
Serve them.
Be YOUR best.
Listen to them.
Pray for them.
This is a short list, and you can add others to it. I have found that when I am getting the best out of myself, and I direct those positive energies to those around me, it brings out the best in them. Then we are all easier to live and work with : )
He's On Our Side
I find it interesting when old, obscure songs just pop into my head. This happened today. I was reminded of a spunky little rocker from the 80s named Fiona. I played her on my college radio station, and she received mild airplay on some other stations. I would put a sample here, except she is so obsure that I could not even find her on YouTube.
Anyway, she had a song called "He's On My Side". It may or may not have been intended as a Christian song. Regardless, I was reminded of it today by a Bible verse I read today in Psalms 84:11...the Lord bestows favor and honor. No good thing does He withhold from he whose walk is upright. This verse tells me that He is on our side. It tells us that, as long we are walking with Him and being obedient (even doing our best to be obedient because none of us are completely obedient) we have His blessing.
Remember this when you pray, and as you go about your day. I know that when I consciously focus on His presence, and know that I have His favor, I feel a strong confidence which affects my life in all areas. My relationships are better. I perform better at my job. I am at peace with myself. I feel stronger and healthier. The list can go on. The same is true for anyone else. Keep in mind today that God is on you side and wants to bless you today. Then live in that confidence and peace. Enjoy the blessings : )
Anyway, she had a song called "He's On My Side". It may or may not have been intended as a Christian song. Regardless, I was reminded of it today by a Bible verse I read today in Psalms 84:11...the Lord bestows favor and honor. No good thing does He withhold from he whose walk is upright. This verse tells me that He is on our side. It tells us that, as long we are walking with Him and being obedient (even doing our best to be obedient because none of us are completely obedient) we have His blessing.
Remember this when you pray, and as you go about your day. I know that when I consciously focus on His presence, and know that I have His favor, I feel a strong confidence which affects my life in all areas. My relationships are better. I perform better at my job. I am at peace with myself. I feel stronger and healthier. The list can go on. The same is true for anyone else. Keep in mind today that God is on you side and wants to bless you today. Then live in that confidence and peace. Enjoy the blessings : )
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Where's My Miracle?
I was reminded of this today, and wanted to share...just because your miracle hasn't arrived yet doesn't mean you won't receive it. Have patience and faith, and you will see your miracle somehow, some way : )
First-Class Treatment
What is it like to receive first-class treatment on a plane, in a restaurant or anywhere for that matter? My honest answer is...I don't know!!
I have never been lucky enough to sit in first-class during air travel. Nor have I received the VIP treatment at a restaurant, sporting event, or anywhere for that matter. It must be nice though. As far as I know, these people are treated like kings. They are catered to and given the best of everything. The people serving them are very positive and helpful to them, and they spend that time living in comfort and peace. Wouldn't that be great to enjoy that treatment on a regular basis?
I am here to tell you that you too can have that first-class treatment. You may ask, "from who?". The answer is...from you! That's right, you heard me (or should I say read me). It is up to us to treat ourselves like the first-class people we are. We cannot (and should not) rely on anyone else to do it. Sure, it's nice to receive a compliment and be treated well by others. We should cherish and appreciate that. However, we need to know that we are first-class creations of God. He makes no mistakes. Every one of His creations are beautiful. It is time that you saw yourself that way.
So go ahead. Give yourself the first-class treatment. Treat yourself like a king or queen. Cater to yourself and give yourself the best of everything. No, I'm not saying to disregard others or go out and buy things you can't afford. Sure, I believe you should treat yourself every once in a while. However, what I am mainly saying is to know that you are an awesome creation of God. Shower yourself with positive thoughts of confidence, love, success, and being the best person you can be. That will allow you to spend much time living in comfort and peace Here's another important fact. When we treat ourselves as first-class citizens, it quickly rubs off on those around us. It is much easier to treat others the same way. As a result, the positive impacts we are looking to make, come much easier.
To conclude, here's my Godly advice for the day...give yourself the first-class treatment. Your life will be first-class as a result. Enjoy the blessings : )
I have never been lucky enough to sit in first-class during air travel. Nor have I received the VIP treatment at a restaurant, sporting event, or anywhere for that matter. It must be nice though. As far as I know, these people are treated like kings. They are catered to and given the best of everything. The people serving them are very positive and helpful to them, and they spend that time living in comfort and peace. Wouldn't that be great to enjoy that treatment on a regular basis?
I am here to tell you that you too can have that first-class treatment. You may ask, "from who?". The answer is...from you! That's right, you heard me (or should I say read me). It is up to us to treat ourselves like the first-class people we are. We cannot (and should not) rely on anyone else to do it. Sure, it's nice to receive a compliment and be treated well by others. We should cherish and appreciate that. However, we need to know that we are first-class creations of God. He makes no mistakes. Every one of His creations are beautiful. It is time that you saw yourself that way.
So go ahead. Give yourself the first-class treatment. Treat yourself like a king or queen. Cater to yourself and give yourself the best of everything. No, I'm not saying to disregard others or go out and buy things you can't afford. Sure, I believe you should treat yourself every once in a while. However, what I am mainly saying is to know that you are an awesome creation of God. Shower yourself with positive thoughts of confidence, love, success, and being the best person you can be. That will allow you to spend much time living in comfort and peace Here's another important fact. When we treat ourselves as first-class citizens, it quickly rubs off on those around us. It is much easier to treat others the same way. As a result, the positive impacts we are looking to make, come much easier.
To conclude, here's my Godly advice for the day...give yourself the first-class treatment. Your life will be first-class as a result. Enjoy the blessings : )
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Monday, July 25, 2011
A Definition Of The Spirit of Power
I've often shared one of my favorite (as my regular readers can tell I have many favorites) Bible verses as 2 Timothy 1:7. It says...for God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, love, and self-discipline.
One may ask..what does one mean by a spirit of power? I have always seen it as the power of God that dwells in and around us. However, I read an article recently that has helped me gain an additional understanding and application of this concept. I found this article by Diane Langberg in my Couples Devotional Bible. She refers to this "spirit" as "the dominant tendency of the mind". She then stresses that is an attitude built upon the assumption that I am a person created by God, a joint heir with Christ, and an important part of this Body. Finally, she says that it is only when we set our minds on exercising that spirit of power, love, and self-control that emotions (especially negative ones) will cease to be the ruling force in our lives.
I find this information very interesting. I've seen in my own life that when my own emotions are the ruling force in my life, I fall short of where I want to be. When I focus my mind on this awesome power that I have, then I excel, even when negative situations arise. It is then where my faith is strong, I am quick to act, and my life and the lives of those around me are positively impacted.
Let us follow the advice of "setting our minds on exercising that spirit of power, love, and self-control. How do we do it? Take time-outs through the day and reflect on God and His goodness. Thank Him for His awesome power that is part of every one of us. If possible, find a block of time each day to reflect on Him, read His word, and meditate on His greatness. I try to find 15-30 minutes. If that is not possible, even taking 5-10 can still make a difference on your frame of mind.
The best part is that God wants us to be vessels of His power to do good works and have positive impacts. He will make sure it happens as long as we act and we maintain a positive, faithful mind. Focus on this verse all day, and watch the great things happen. Please share when they do. Enjoy the blessings : )
One may ask..what does one mean by a spirit of power? I have always seen it as the power of God that dwells in and around us. However, I read an article recently that has helped me gain an additional understanding and application of this concept. I found this article by Diane Langberg in my Couples Devotional Bible. She refers to this "spirit" as "the dominant tendency of the mind". She then stresses that is an attitude built upon the assumption that I am a person created by God, a joint heir with Christ, and an important part of this Body. Finally, she says that it is only when we set our minds on exercising that spirit of power, love, and self-control that emotions (especially negative ones) will cease to be the ruling force in our lives.
I find this information very interesting. I've seen in my own life that when my own emotions are the ruling force in my life, I fall short of where I want to be. When I focus my mind on this awesome power that I have, then I excel, even when negative situations arise. It is then where my faith is strong, I am quick to act, and my life and the lives of those around me are positively impacted.
Let us follow the advice of "setting our minds on exercising that spirit of power, love, and self-control. How do we do it? Take time-outs through the day and reflect on God and His goodness. Thank Him for His awesome power that is part of every one of us. If possible, find a block of time each day to reflect on Him, read His word, and meditate on His greatness. I try to find 15-30 minutes. If that is not possible, even taking 5-10 can still make a difference on your frame of mind.
The best part is that God wants us to be vessels of His power to do good works and have positive impacts. He will make sure it happens as long as we act and we maintain a positive, faithful mind. Focus on this verse all day, and watch the great things happen. Please share when they do. Enjoy the blessings : )
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Lessons From Papa
Today is the 17th anniversary of my grandfather's death. Obviously he's been on my mind a lot today. We got along great, and I still miss him very much. We had very similiar personalitles, from our sensitivity, love of people, and sense of humor that have some laughing, and others being driven up the wall.
As I reflect on the memories today, there are three main areas where I believe he has had a great influence on me:
1. Generosity - I think he focused less on himself than anyone else. He never had much money, but he would have given the world to those he loved if he could have. Still, he often practiced generosity almost every time I saw him, which was quite often. He was also a people pleaser, and was very sensitive to responding to the needs of others.
2. Sense of humor - Although he took his life responsibilities seriously, he would do ANYTHING to make someone laugh. The funny thing is that he would be laughing right along with them. Even when life was tough, he never took things TOO seriously. At least I never saw it.
3. He fought for what he believed in - Whether it was fighting for his country (he fought in WWII), or defending his family, he never backed down from a challenge, especially if it regarded his faith, family, or friends.
I am very thankful for the memories of my papa, and especially for the valuable lessons he taught me. I hope I can carry out this excellent example in my own life. Thanks Papa : )
As I reflect on the memories today, there are three main areas where I believe he has had a great influence on me:
1. Generosity - I think he focused less on himself than anyone else. He never had much money, but he would have given the world to those he loved if he could have. Still, he often practiced generosity almost every time I saw him, which was quite often. He was also a people pleaser, and was very sensitive to responding to the needs of others.
2. Sense of humor - Although he took his life responsibilities seriously, he would do ANYTHING to make someone laugh. The funny thing is that he would be laughing right along with them. Even when life was tough, he never took things TOO seriously. At least I never saw it.
3. He fought for what he believed in - Whether it was fighting for his country (he fought in WWII), or defending his family, he never backed down from a challenge, especially if it regarded his faith, family, or friends.
I am very thankful for the memories of my papa, and especially for the valuable lessons he taught me. I hope I can carry out this excellent example in my own life. Thanks Papa : )
Saturday, July 23, 2011
Thursday, July 21, 2011
He's Already Working On It
I read an excellent article from Guideposts magazine today. It described a woman who was having severe financial difficulties. In fact, she could not even wash her kids' clothes because she ran out of laundry detergent, and had to wait several days before she would be able to buy more.
What did she do? The only thing she could think of was to pray. As she was praying, she heard a noise at the door. It startled her, so she went to check on it. It was just the mail carrier bringing the mail. Or was it? As she retrieved the mail, she saw that she had received, at random, a free sample of a new laundry detergent. It was just enough to do the laundry she had that day.
Even though she randomly received the free detergent, I will say with certainty that it was not a random act. The Bible verse the story provided was Isaiah 65:24. It says, Before they call, I will answer. While they are still speaking I will hear.
This detergent was on the way, well before this woman said this prayer. In fact, it arrived as she was praying. This tells me that God knows are desires before we even know them. He wants to answer our prayers, and is immediately at work in doing so. Let us take this confidence with us today. Whatever you are praying for today, know that God has it under control and is already at work in answering it. Enjoy the blessings!
What did she do? The only thing she could think of was to pray. As she was praying, she heard a noise at the door. It startled her, so she went to check on it. It was just the mail carrier bringing the mail. Or was it? As she retrieved the mail, she saw that she had received, at random, a free sample of a new laundry detergent. It was just enough to do the laundry she had that day.
Even though she randomly received the free detergent, I will say with certainty that it was not a random act. The Bible verse the story provided was Isaiah 65:24. It says, Before they call, I will answer. While they are still speaking I will hear.
This detergent was on the way, well before this woman said this prayer. In fact, it arrived as she was praying. This tells me that God knows are desires before we even know them. He wants to answer our prayers, and is immediately at work in doing so. Let us take this confidence with us today. Whatever you are praying for today, know that God has it under control and is already at work in answering it. Enjoy the blessings!
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
How to Quench Spiritual Thirst
God helped me in a major way today. I was feeling down. I felt useless, faithless, and frustrated that some things in my life weren't going my way.
You may be saying..wait a minute, Joe. This is supposed to be a positive blog. What's with the negative feelings? To answer that, I will say that even the best of us optimists have days like this every once in a while. What did I do? I went to the only one that could help me in a situation like this...God Himself.
It's amazing how God works. Earlier in the day, during my devotion time, I read Isaiah 55:1. It says, Come all you who are thirsty, come to the waters; and you who have no money, come buy and eat! Come buy wine and milk without money and without cost. While praying to God, I realized my problem. I have spent so much time figuring out how to accomplish things in my own power that I have not focused enough on God and His power. The reason that I was feeling as I was is because I was spiritually thirsty.
The greatness of God is shown in this verse. He says all we have to do in order to quench this spiritual thirst is come to Him. Acknowledge His love and power and just draw to it. And notice what He says about the cost of coming to Him at the end of the verse. There is none!
Are you experiencing a spiritual thirst? Are you feeling an incompleteness in your life? You can begin solving the problem by just going to Him. Let God handle your difficult situations. He is ready for you to ask for His help, and He provides for you freely and willingly.
My day was turned around instantly. As I focused on the power and love of God throughout the rest of my day, I felt a powerful peace around me and inside of me. I was spiritually full, and the light in me that had been dimmed was shining brightly once again.
It's a simple invitation to come to God and see what He can do for you. Will you take it? If you do, your thirst will be gone. Enjoy the blessings : )
You may be saying..wait a minute, Joe. This is supposed to be a positive blog. What's with the negative feelings? To answer that, I will say that even the best of us optimists have days like this every once in a while. What did I do? I went to the only one that could help me in a situation like this...God Himself.
It's amazing how God works. Earlier in the day, during my devotion time, I read Isaiah 55:1. It says, Come all you who are thirsty, come to the waters; and you who have no money, come buy and eat! Come buy wine and milk without money and without cost. While praying to God, I realized my problem. I have spent so much time figuring out how to accomplish things in my own power that I have not focused enough on God and His power. The reason that I was feeling as I was is because I was spiritually thirsty.
The greatness of God is shown in this verse. He says all we have to do in order to quench this spiritual thirst is come to Him. Acknowledge His love and power and just draw to it. And notice what He says about the cost of coming to Him at the end of the verse. There is none!
Are you experiencing a spiritual thirst? Are you feeling an incompleteness in your life? You can begin solving the problem by just going to Him. Let God handle your difficult situations. He is ready for you to ask for His help, and He provides for you freely and willingly.
My day was turned around instantly. As I focused on the power and love of God throughout the rest of my day, I felt a powerful peace around me and inside of me. I was spiritually full, and the light in me that had been dimmed was shining brightly once again.
It's a simple invitation to come to God and see what He can do for you. Will you take it? If you do, your thirst will be gone. Enjoy the blessings : )
Monday, July 18, 2011
Empty Me
There's a Contemporary Christian song from a couple of years ago by Chris Sligh. It is called, "Empty Me". It is an excellent reminder and prayer to empty ourselves of our ego, selfishness, and all we are that can get in the way of God's greatness. Instead, I pray that after being emptied of myself, I am filled with the awesomeness and love of God.
When we pray this prayer and live it out, great things happen in our lives. We bear more positive fruit, impact the lives of others, and glorify God. If you want to see some great blessings, stay out of God's way. Allow him to empty us of us, and fill us with Him. Your life will be filled with greatness as a result.
When we pray this prayer and live it out, great things happen in our lives. We bear more positive fruit, impact the lives of others, and glorify God. If you want to see some great blessings, stay out of God's way. Allow him to empty us of us, and fill us with Him. Your life will be filled with greatness as a result.
Three Ways to Get Answered Prayers
Wouldn't it be nice if we always received what we wanted in life? Unfortunately, it doesn't always work that way. However, there are things we can do to ensure that our prayers are answered (when it's in our best interest for God to do so).
John 15:7-8 says, If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be given to you. This is to my father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my desciples. Another great scripture verse is Matthew 21:22. It says, if you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.
Based on these verses, I see three main ways to receive what you are seeking in life:
1. Remain in Him. This means remaining in constant communication with God through prayer. It also means believing in Him and His promises, being as much like Jesus as we can, and acting obediently according to His word and what we are prompted to do. In short, when we pray, listen and watch for a response, and act accordingly, we are increasing the chances of our prayers being answered.
2. Read and know His word. This occurs from reading the Bible and living it out. When His words are in our mind and on our heart, we are more likely to act appropriately and understand what He is doing in our lives.
3, Have/demonstrate faith. It is simple. The more we believe and expect good things to happen in our lives, the more likely we are to see it happen.
Why do these actions increase the chance of positive results? If you look at verse 8 from John 15 it talks about the Father's glory, that you would bear much fruit. When you abide in Him, know His word, and live in faith, it glorifies God. Don't you think God would be very willing to help you if He knows it would glorify Him? I would think so. The only time God would not honor a prayer is if it is something that would not glorify Him, or if it is not in His right timing.
This formula has worked very well for me, and I have seen its power in my own life. I strongly recommend you follow it. I am sure you will see the blessing in your life as well.
John 15:7-8 says, If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be given to you. This is to my father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my desciples. Another great scripture verse is Matthew 21:22. It says, if you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.
Based on these verses, I see three main ways to receive what you are seeking in life:
1. Remain in Him. This means remaining in constant communication with God through prayer. It also means believing in Him and His promises, being as much like Jesus as we can, and acting obediently according to His word and what we are prompted to do. In short, when we pray, listen and watch for a response, and act accordingly, we are increasing the chances of our prayers being answered.
2. Read and know His word. This occurs from reading the Bible and living it out. When His words are in our mind and on our heart, we are more likely to act appropriately and understand what He is doing in our lives.
3, Have/demonstrate faith. It is simple. The more we believe and expect good things to happen in our lives, the more likely we are to see it happen.
Why do these actions increase the chance of positive results? If you look at verse 8 from John 15 it talks about the Father's glory, that you would bear much fruit. When you abide in Him, know His word, and live in faith, it glorifies God. Don't you think God would be very willing to help you if He knows it would glorify Him? I would think so. The only time God would not honor a prayer is if it is something that would not glorify Him, or if it is not in His right timing.
This formula has worked very well for me, and I have seen its power in my own life. I strongly recommend you follow it. I am sure you will see the blessing in your life as well.
Saturday, July 16, 2011
A Key to Getting Want You Want
Isn't it amazing how some people seem to get what they want, when they want? Unfortunately, the opposite is true for others.
So what's the magic formula? Is it faith? Luck? Being at the right place at the right time? I will say yes to all of those. However, I believe one word sums it up greater than all of the others. That word is....EXPECTATION. These people achieve these goals simply because they expect to.
I've seen in this in my own life. In general, when I expect to succeed at something, I usually do. When I go into something expecting to fail, I usually do. It's also amazing how, when we expect success, our faith grows, our luck increases, and we end up in the right place at the right time.
The bottom line...if you want success, learn to expect it. You can do this by envisioning the success in your mind. This helps because as your mind "sees" you succeeding you are more likely to believe success is possible. Then, as your level of expectation increases, so does your level of success.
It's a great way to live, isn't it? Raise your expectation level and let the victories begin. Enjoy!
Faith Tester
Test your faith today. Do something you know you could never do on your own, but could only accomplish with God's help. Enjoy the blessing!
Friday, July 15, 2011
A Sure Way To Reach Your Desires
God's promises are true, right? We can answer with a resounding yes!
If you are looking for those promises to come true in your life, I recommend you follow this 5 word formula: Delight yourself in the Lord.
It's as simple as that. Psalm 37:4 says..delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. According to the Life Application Bible, to delight in the Lord means to experience pleasure and joy in His presence. Simply said, the more we do this, the greater chance we have to reach our desires.
Knowing this, let us enjoy His presence as much as possible today. You will be extremely blessed.
If you are looking for those promises to come true in your life, I recommend you follow this 5 word formula: Delight yourself in the Lord.
It's as simple as that. Psalm 37:4 says..delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. According to the Life Application Bible, to delight in the Lord means to experience pleasure and joy in His presence. Simply said, the more we do this, the greater chance we have to reach our desires.
Knowing this, let us enjoy His presence as much as possible today. You will be extremely blessed.
Monday, July 11, 2011
Get Out Of the Way!
Who am I talking to? Mainly me, but anyone else who wants to listen. Just trying to help: )
I say this because I know God wants to do so much in my life. However, me and my ego constantly get in the way. We think we know more. We think our way is best. We think that just because we don't immediately see what we're looking for it's not there.
It's time for me to just move aside and let God do His thing. It's about making myself available, speaking and listening to Him, and doing what I am called to do.
God has so much good in store. Let us believe it, know it, and let it happen. Enjoy the blessings!
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Great Plans of Prosperity Ahead
I was reminded of this wonderful verse in church today...for I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11).
This is a promise from God, which means these words are completely true. Dwell on this message today, especially if you've been having your doubts lately. God wants us to have the best in our lives. We need to believe and accept that.
Many blessings to you!
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Beautiful Blue Skies
You could not ask for a better day here in Buffalo NY today. Cloudless skies, limited humidity and 80 degrees. The perfect summer day!
I'm sure you can think of your perfect weather day too. Here's a suggestion if I may. The next time there are clouds or obstacles in your life, take a time out and picture your ideal day and basking in its glory. It will put a smile on your face and help the clouds clear away. It works well for me, which is why I wanted to share.
Have an excellent day!
Friday, July 8, 2011
Tell Yourself This...
I have unlimited power (it's God's spirit in you) and extreme confidence.
Repeat that to yourself often and dwell on it throughout the day. See how it affects your day. I think you will like the results :)
Thursday, July 7, 2011
You're Right
As long as I'm in quote mode today, here's another one of my favorites...whether you think you can or you can't, you're right.
This quote from Henry Ford is so true. Our level of success directly correlates with our level of expectancy.
Want success? Keep your expectations high and you will experience it. I really think you can.
Is It Possible?
The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible. Arthur C. Clarke
I found this excellent quote online. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. What difference does it make what I think I can and cannot do? How 'bout going and going until I can't go anymore. Yet it doesn't stop there. When I've reached my limit, how 'bout letting God do the rest. With Him there is no such thing as limits.
If there is a goal in your life that you have been unable to reach, try living by this philosophy today. Don't stop until impossible turns to possible. Then enjoy the blessing : )
I found this excellent quote online. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. What difference does it make what I think I can and cannot do? How 'bout going and going until I can't go anymore. Yet it doesn't stop there. When I've reached my limit, how 'bout letting God do the rest. With Him there is no such thing as limits.
If there is a goal in your life that you have been unable to reach, try living by this philosophy today. Don't stop until impossible turns to possible. Then enjoy the blessing : )
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
We're Not Shy of Power
Wouldn't be great if we were filled with the most awesome power in the universe? Well, I have good news. We are!!
I was reminded of one of my favorite Bible verses this morning. 2 Timothy 1:7 says...God did not not give us a spirit of timidity (fear), but a spirit of power, love, and self-control.
What does this mean? To me, it first says that God gave us His spirit. If we believe, it IS within us and part of us. Second, it tells me that this spirit is powerful and loving. Wow!
It's great to know this. The challenge is to consciously live it and be it. Imagine the great people we can be, and impacts we can make if we live and act this knowledge out on a daily basis.
So if you are looking for that special power, look no further. You have it. It is part of your being. Believe it and let it shine in your world. You will be blessed and be a blessing to others.
Have a wonderful day : )
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Help Me With My Faith
I have been reading a lot (and writing a great deal about it in this blog as well) about the power of faith. The greater one's faith, the more likely they are to experience the life they desire.
The problem is that it is so often easier said than done. What about the times where, no matter how hard we try, we just have so much difficulty believing? I know I am supposed to have faith, but I just can't!
I'm sure everyone has been in this situation, and I found a couple of verses of assurance. The first is from Mark 9:24. In the previous verse, Jesus says everything is possible for him who believes. In this verse the person He said it to requests..please help me with my unbelief. This tells me that if we ask for Godly help in this area, we can receive it. Another verse is 2 Timothy 2:13. It says...if we are faithless, he will remain faithful. To me, this is saying that God expects that we will not always be faithful. Difficult situations arise, and it is easy to put our focus on the problem instead our Heavenly helper. This tells me that God is with us regardless. He will still be there in every situation, offering His help and guidance.
The challenge is to consciously take this with us throughout our day. Let us remember that He is with us, and that our faith grows the more we focus on God and His way. And when our faith grows, great things start to happen.
Have an excellent day : )
The problem is that it is so often easier said than done. What about the times where, no matter how hard we try, we just have so much difficulty believing? I know I am supposed to have faith, but I just can't!
I'm sure everyone has been in this situation, and I found a couple of verses of assurance. The first is from Mark 9:24. In the previous verse, Jesus says everything is possible for him who believes. In this verse the person He said it to requests..please help me with my unbelief. This tells me that if we ask for Godly help in this area, we can receive it. Another verse is 2 Timothy 2:13. It says...if we are faithless, he will remain faithful. To me, this is saying that God expects that we will not always be faithful. Difficult situations arise, and it is easy to put our focus on the problem instead our Heavenly helper. This tells me that God is with us regardless. He will still be there in every situation, offering His help and guidance.
The challenge is to consciously take this with us throughout our day. Let us remember that He is with us, and that our faith grows the more we focus on God and His way. And when our faith grows, great things start to happen.
Have an excellent day : )
Monday, July 4, 2011
Trust Issues
I trust most people I come in contact with. That is mostly good, though it can go against me at times.
One question I ask, however, is why do I often have trouble believing the most trustworthy source in the entire universe? One who would never steer me in the wrong direction.
Do you also struggle to trust God sometimes? Or many times? You are not alone. When this happens I go to the same Bible verse almost every time. Proverbs 3:5 says...trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own undertanding. The Amplified version says..lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind, and do not rely on your own insight or understanding. Another translation says do not rely on your own intelligence.
Easier said than done? I can vouch for that. I have a decent amount of intelligence and I often rely on it. I see things as they are instead of how they can be. So how do we get aroud this? The next verse says...in all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. When we focus on God and His ability and power, it takes the focus off ourselves and our circumstances. God can do a lot more with them than we can.
Two things work best for me in doing this. One is to focus on times in my life where God has really come through, from the most basic situations to some of the most difficult. Two, is to focus on the faith verses and miracles in the Bible. If miracles happen for others, why not us? When I do these two things, it's amazing how much easier it is to trust in God. And it's amazing how positive and powerful my life becomes. The same will happen for you.
Have an excellent day!
Sunday, July 3, 2011
In the Right Hands
Our present and future, that is. And it's God's hands I'm talking about.
I read an encouraging scripture verse today that really put me at ease. It's from Exodus 14:13 and says..do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today.
Isn't it nice to know the Lord is on our side? Today, every day, and always. Yes, we need to move when he tells us. However, this is telling me that there are many times where we just need to stay still and let God do His thing. And if we let Him, He will do great things. We just need to believe it.
God wants to do great things in our lives. Let us stay out of the way and allow Him to do His great work. Then we can be thankful and enjoy the blessings, sharing them with as many people as we can.
Enjoy the day!
Saturday, July 2, 2011
You Can Make a Difference
If you think you're too small to make a difference, then obviously you've never been in bed with a mosquito. Michelle Walke
I thought this quote was cute, but true. No one is too small to make a difference. Even the smallest bit of difference is better than none. Feel free to share this with anyone else you know.
It's Going to Happen...
...If you believe it.
What's going to happen? Whatever you are looking to see happen in your life. The Bible says all things are possible to those who have faith. It is up to us to believe for what we are seeking in our lives and do what is necessary for us to get there. The rest is up to God and His miracle working power.
At this point you may ask, "what if God says no to what I am asking? What if I am not supposed to have it? I have two positives to that. First, if the answer is no, God is protecting us from something. He would never allow us to have or experience something that would hurt us. Second, it means He has something even better in store for us. If God says no because there is something better, I'll take it!
I will share the advice I've read on many occasions. Determine exactly what you want. Fix it on your mind and stay focused on it. See the fulfilment of your desire. Stay focused and keep moving towards it until you receive it or something better. Sometimes it takes longer than other times. However, I have found that the more I stay focused and faithful, the shorter the time it takes to see the results I am seeking. The same will be true for you. Please share when your victories occur.
Have an excellent day : )
What's going to happen? Whatever you are looking to see happen in your life. The Bible says all things are possible to those who have faith. It is up to us to believe for what we are seeking in our lives and do what is necessary for us to get there. The rest is up to God and His miracle working power.
At this point you may ask, "what if God says no to what I am asking? What if I am not supposed to have it? I have two positives to that. First, if the answer is no, God is protecting us from something. He would never allow us to have or experience something that would hurt us. Second, it means He has something even better in store for us. If God says no because there is something better, I'll take it!
I will share the advice I've read on many occasions. Determine exactly what you want. Fix it on your mind and stay focused on it. See the fulfilment of your desire. Stay focused and keep moving towards it until you receive it or something better. Sometimes it takes longer than other times. However, I have found that the more I stay focused and faithful, the shorter the time it takes to see the results I am seeking. The same will be true for you. Please share when your victories occur.
Have an excellent day : )
Friday, July 1, 2011
A Different Take on a Classic Verse
One of my favorite Bible verses is Philippians 4:13. We commonly know it as..I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
I believe that if we live on this verse alone, and focused on it every day, our lives would be more powerful. However, at times I haven't exactly been clear on the exact meaning. So I looked up some other translations and found some great info.
The Amplified Bible states it this way: I am ready for anything and equal to anything through Him who infuses inner strength into me. A new English version says Christ gives me strength to face anything.
The challenge is to consciously meditate on those thoughts throughout the day. If you are looking for more power, positivity, and blessing in your life that's a great way to make it happen.
Enjoy God's wonderful power in your life today!
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Powerful Affirmation
I am realizing more each day the power of affirmations. Here's one that's been working very well for me...
I have amazing power (the power of God in me) and extreme confidence.
I have found it effective to repeat it to myself several times throughout the day. After I do so, I take a few minutes to reflect on God's presence in and around me. At those times, I can actually feel the power, and the confidence automatically builds.
The results of repeating this affirmation are dramatic. What happens is that the more you tell yourself this and live it out, the more you believe it. I challenge anyone to try it for yourself.
Have an amazing day : )
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Dominant Thoughts
In the book The Secret a key statement is that we attract what our dominant thoughts are about. Do you believe this to be true?
In my opinion there is no way around it. I've seen its truth in my own life.
Knowing this I see the importance of keeping my thoughts positive, hopeful, and confident. It's funny how my life turns out that way when I do. The same will be true for you : )
No Lack
Here's some powerful information for your day. It comes from Psalm 34:9 and says: those who fear (respect and worship) the Lord will lack no good thing.
Knowing this, let us constantly be aware that the Lord is with us and let us be aware of His greatness with thanksgiving. The result will be blessing and all of our needs being met.
May your blessings be plenty today : )
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Powerful People
There's something about meeting someone powerful. Have you ever done so? You may answer yes or no. However, I will tell you that the answer is yes. Who is it? Take a look in the mirror. It is you!
Many of us don't realize how powerful we are. I am challenging myself and anyone else to not only realize it, but to KNOW it! The power of God dwells in each and everyone of us. If we ask Him for it, maintain positive thoughts in our mind, and look for opportunities to do good, the amazing power in us will manifest. You will see great things. You will see power you never imagined, but have always had.
This reminder has helped me as I am conscious of it during the past few weeks. I challenge you to keep this reminder in the front of your mind as well. It's powerful stuff!!
Many of us don't realize how powerful we are. I am challenging myself and anyone else to not only realize it, but to KNOW it! The power of God dwells in each and everyone of us. If we ask Him for it, maintain positive thoughts in our mind, and look for opportunities to do good, the amazing power in us will manifest. You will see great things. You will see power you never imagined, but have always had.
This reminder has helped me as I am conscious of it during the past few weeks. I challenge you to keep this reminder in the front of your mind as well. It's powerful stuff!!
Expect Positive Results
I've written often about focusing the mind on the positive. Yet I still have to remind myself to do so.
As a result, I remind myself again, along with anyone else reading this. The more we expect positive results the more we will receive them. It is the absolute truth.
Let us live our lives today knowing that. Expect positive results and watch them happen. Please be sure to share your success stories!
Playing Hookey
I'm not one to complain about my job much. However, I am deliberately not going in today. Most schools in this country are done for the summer. However, my charter school is open 'til Thursday. Finals ended and grades closed last week. All we've been doing is watching movies and playing kickball with the less than 50% of the 7th and 8th grade students that are showing up. I'm sorry, but I am paid to teach, not babysit.
I share this because I find such value in extra off days. You may tell me that I have a whole summer off beginning next week. True, but I plan on working full-time to pay some bills. Part of that job hunt continues today. I can also get so many other things done today. Time with my kids (who are already on vacation); respond to the e-mails that are awaiting me; write some blogs; finish the book I am writing; mow the lawns and clean the pool; and anything else that needs to get done. All with a clear mind focused on positive thoughts instead of the negatives of wasting more time at work.
We're not supposed to play hookey. Yet sometimes it is very valuable for keeping a positive frame of mind. Today is one of those days.
I share this because I find such value in extra off days. You may tell me that I have a whole summer off beginning next week. True, but I plan on working full-time to pay some bills. Part of that job hunt continues today. I can also get so many other things done today. Time with my kids (who are already on vacation); respond to the e-mails that are awaiting me; write some blogs; finish the book I am writing; mow the lawns and clean the pool; and anything else that needs to get done. All with a clear mind focused on positive thoughts instead of the negatives of wasting more time at work.
We're not supposed to play hookey. Yet sometimes it is very valuable for keeping a positive frame of mind. Today is one of those days.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Thanks For...
I am constantly reminded lately of the benefits of gratitude. I should easily be able to think of at least 10 things in a minute to be thankful for.
Now that I have a few spare minutes that's what I'm going to do. I will think of 10 things, then reflect on them. I then feel the positive feelings that go along with them. Then, something tells me my day will be even better than it already is.
If you are looking for quick "pick me ups" throughout your day, try doing the same. Dwell on the things in your life to be thankful for. I'm sure you will appreciate it : )
Sunday, June 26, 2011
God and Me at Walmart
I've been extremely busy these days. Hence the reason for the lack of writing activity. That's a teacher's life at the end of a school year, especially at a charter school which doesn't end 'til the end of June.
I finally had a break on Saturday. Some plans got cancelled, and it was a very slow day. I spent some time with family but also had some alone time and a chance to reflect a bit. Some positive and hopeful thoughts were in my head, but the one negative kept coming back to me. Through all the business, there was one main thing I focused on throughout. ME!! I focused on how I would get through each day; how I would spend my free time in the summer; how I would accomplish this, and how I would accomplish that.
I've always been a bit too self-centered in my opinion. I thought I was improving, but these past weeks have shown me how much I am not. Anyway, I decided to focus my thoughts on others instead. God has put me on this earth to do good works for Him. That means being a light for others.
I decided to let my light shine brightly as I entered the Walmart parking lot. I had several apprehensions immediately. First, I was asking God for help in making people's days. Would God do this immediately, even though I was so self-focused for so long? Like I can turn on the selfless switch just like that? Also, Walmart is not the easiest place to do this. Most employees I see there don't seem too happy being there. And, especially on a Saturday, it is crowded with slow moving people that don't give much time to look or make a wrong move. Challenge on!
I decided I was going to take this to the extreme. First of all, it wasn't crowded, but I was going to smile at every person that I passed. It can't be that easy, can it? But it was! I wasn't rediculous about it. Just a "hi, how are you smile". Instead of receiving the suspicious stares back, I received a return smile from almost everyone. Then came the best part. The cashier. Usually they are the most unhappy in the place. There were only two or three open. I took the least crouded one. The cashier was so typical. She did not say a word to the two customers ahead of me, except for answering a quick question and noting the price. She worked hurriedly. An employee came to her with a paper which she quickly threw to the side. It landed on the ground but she did not pick it up. Ok God. What are you going to do with this?
Finally it was my turn. I used a sincere smile and greeted her. She actually hesitated and actually took a quick look at me. This was the first time I saw her make eye contact with any customer. The look was.."did you just say something nice to me"? I let here do her thing, she quoted the price and I paid. I thought that was it for our encounter. I was thankful that I was even to put a small dent of positivity into the encounter. However, instead she picked up her head, made full eye contact, and with a big, sincere smile said thank you. I then wished her a good day, and her demeanor changed even more to the positive.
This encounter completely made my day. Not because of anything I did, but because within minutes of asking, God answered a prayer. He answered regardless of the fact that I have been completely lacking much regard for other people in the past few weeks. All I did was agree to be a beacon for His light to shine, and he took care of the rest. He confirmed that, as long as I do my part, He will do the rest. He can make something positive happen in a challenging environment.
I did not see this girl with any other customers, but I strongly believe her demeanor was different for the rest of the day. She was happier after the encounter, and so was I. This is a lesson to me that I've seen and heard many times, but needed to experience it again. God will respond immediately if we ask in prayer and are willing to play our small part. As a result, we get blessed and so do the others around us. I will never forget this short, routine shopping experience, and I will use it as a reminder about how easily we can be a blessing to others just by asking and to willingly be used by God for His greatness.
Thanks for reading. Have an excellent day : )
I finally had a break on Saturday. Some plans got cancelled, and it was a very slow day. I spent some time with family but also had some alone time and a chance to reflect a bit. Some positive and hopeful thoughts were in my head, but the one negative kept coming back to me. Through all the business, there was one main thing I focused on throughout. ME!! I focused on how I would get through each day; how I would spend my free time in the summer; how I would accomplish this, and how I would accomplish that.
I've always been a bit too self-centered in my opinion. I thought I was improving, but these past weeks have shown me how much I am not. Anyway, I decided to focus my thoughts on others instead. God has put me on this earth to do good works for Him. That means being a light for others.
I decided to let my light shine brightly as I entered the Walmart parking lot. I had several apprehensions immediately. First, I was asking God for help in making people's days. Would God do this immediately, even though I was so self-focused for so long? Like I can turn on the selfless switch just like that? Also, Walmart is not the easiest place to do this. Most employees I see there don't seem too happy being there. And, especially on a Saturday, it is crowded with slow moving people that don't give much time to look or make a wrong move. Challenge on!
I decided I was going to take this to the extreme. First of all, it wasn't crowded, but I was going to smile at every person that I passed. It can't be that easy, can it? But it was! I wasn't rediculous about it. Just a "hi, how are you smile". Instead of receiving the suspicious stares back, I received a return smile from almost everyone. Then came the best part. The cashier. Usually they are the most unhappy in the place. There were only two or three open. I took the least crouded one. The cashier was so typical. She did not say a word to the two customers ahead of me, except for answering a quick question and noting the price. She worked hurriedly. An employee came to her with a paper which she quickly threw to the side. It landed on the ground but she did not pick it up. Ok God. What are you going to do with this?
Finally it was my turn. I used a sincere smile and greeted her. She actually hesitated and actually took a quick look at me. This was the first time I saw her make eye contact with any customer. The look was.."did you just say something nice to me"? I let here do her thing, she quoted the price and I paid. I thought that was it for our encounter. I was thankful that I was even to put a small dent of positivity into the encounter. However, instead she picked up her head, made full eye contact, and with a big, sincere smile said thank you. I then wished her a good day, and her demeanor changed even more to the positive.
This encounter completely made my day. Not because of anything I did, but because within minutes of asking, God answered a prayer. He answered regardless of the fact that I have been completely lacking much regard for other people in the past few weeks. All I did was agree to be a beacon for His light to shine, and he took care of the rest. He confirmed that, as long as I do my part, He will do the rest. He can make something positive happen in a challenging environment.
I did not see this girl with any other customers, but I strongly believe her demeanor was different for the rest of the day. She was happier after the encounter, and so was I. This is a lesson to me that I've seen and heard many times, but needed to experience it again. God will respond immediately if we ask in prayer and are willing to play our small part. As a result, we get blessed and so do the others around us. I will never forget this short, routine shopping experience, and I will use it as a reminder about how easily we can be a blessing to others just by asking and to willingly be used by God for His greatness.
Thanks for reading. Have an excellent day : )
Monday, June 13, 2011
Believe It To See It
The above quote by Wayne Dyer (and I'm sure plenty of others as well) is contrary to what we often say and think in our lives. We say that we'll believe it when we see it. We often won't have faith in something unless we can see it happening or we can prove it to be true.
Instead, it works the other way. If we want to see great things in our lives we have to believe them first. See them happening in your imagination. Feel the emotion of experiencing in our minds what we actually want to experience in our lives. Then pray and reflect on what action to take. Once you know, then do it! It is best to do this on a regular basis whenever you have a chance during the day.
As our faith increases in our lives so do the blessings. So do the miracles. It is up to us to believe it. Then we will see it.
Have an excellent day!
Instead, it works the other way. If we want to see great things in our lives we have to believe them first. See them happening in your imagination. Feel the emotion of experiencing in our minds what we actually want to experience in our lives. Then pray and reflect on what action to take. Once you know, then do it! It is best to do this on a regular basis whenever you have a chance during the day.
As our faith increases in our lives so do the blessings. So do the miracles. It is up to us to believe it. Then we will see it.
Have an excellent day!
Realizing Your Dreams
Your dreams can come true sooner than later. It's a simple, but true fact. How? Faith and belief in their fulfilment. The more we believe that our dreams will be realized, and the more we envision success in our minds, the faster we will experience the dreams we are seeking.
I will share a great song that relates to this. It is from an Australian singer named Natalie Bassingthwaighte, and it is called "Someday Soon". I would bet that this artist with the funny name is not known by more than 5 Americans. Regardless, she can sing, and she has a very inspirational song. Check it out, and listen to its message. Then believe and let your dreams come true!
http://youtu.be/9YzStOnfNMg
I will share a great song that relates to this. It is from an Australian singer named Natalie Bassingthwaighte, and it is called "Someday Soon". I would bet that this artist with the funny name is not known by more than 5 Americans. Regardless, she can sing, and she has a very inspirational song. Check it out, and listen to its message. Then believe and let your dreams come true!
http://youtu.be/9YzStOnfNMg
The Power of Faith
I have shared several times in this blog about how blessed I have been during the 45 years I've been on this earth so far. I am very thankful for the beautiful things God has given me. I've also said that, as good as things have been, I strongly believe there is so much more out there for me. As much as I've already been blessed, I haven't even scratched the surface of the miracles still there for me.
The problem is, for many of these miracles I should already be experiencing them. Why haven't I? Is it because God puts a cap on the number of blessings we receive? ABSOLUTELY NOT!! Is it because I am destined for only what I already have? No way!! I believe that the number one reason I haven't reached some of my biggest goals is simply because of a lack of faith. I am seeing more and more how the measure of our faith determines the level of greatness in our lives.
This week I am dedicating myself to re-learning this concept (it's sad that I already know it, but I just don't apply it enough). Since this blog is meant to share the positive things I learn and experience with as many people as possible, I will put my heart and thoughts out there for anyone to share. I certainly hope it helps anyone else who needs to hear it. Duing the week I will share some songs and verses that have helped build my faith and show me the positive effects of doing so. Feel free to share any that have helped you.
The first is from a group called Kutless. It's called "That's What Faith Can Do". It's a perfect example of what I am talking about.
Enjoy!!
http://youtu.be/WTNBWv33-QI
The problem is, for many of these miracles I should already be experiencing them. Why haven't I? Is it because God puts a cap on the number of blessings we receive? ABSOLUTELY NOT!! Is it because I am destined for only what I already have? No way!! I believe that the number one reason I haven't reached some of my biggest goals is simply because of a lack of faith. I am seeing more and more how the measure of our faith determines the level of greatness in our lives.
This week I am dedicating myself to re-learning this concept (it's sad that I already know it, but I just don't apply it enough). Since this blog is meant to share the positive things I learn and experience with as many people as possible, I will put my heart and thoughts out there for anyone to share. I certainly hope it helps anyone else who needs to hear it. Duing the week I will share some songs and verses that have helped build my faith and show me the positive effects of doing so. Feel free to share any that have helped you.
The first is from a group called Kutless. It's called "That's What Faith Can Do". It's a perfect example of what I am talking about.
Enjoy!!
http://youtu.be/WTNBWv33-QI
Friday, June 3, 2011
Thanks For a Great Week
Things to be thankful for this week:
1. Great Memorial Day weekend with family.
2. Though it's a month and a half late, the great Spring weather.
3. After some discussion with admin. today, it appears my job is safe for next year.
4. The great group of baseball players I coach. We still have footprints in our butts from the two kickings we got. However, in both games they fought until the end and held their heads high. Not one of them complained even though they desperately want to win.
Thank you God for a great week : )
1. Great Memorial Day weekend with family.
2. Though it's a month and a half late, the great Spring weather.
3. After some discussion with admin. today, it appears my job is safe for next year.
4. The great group of baseball players I coach. We still have footprints in our butts from the two kickings we got. However, in both games they fought until the end and held their heads high. Not one of them complained even though they desperately want to win.
Thank you God for a great week : )
Friday, May 20, 2011
You Really Know the World Is Ending?
In Matthew 24:36 Jesus says...No one knows the day or hour these things will happen, not even the angels in heaven or the Son himself. Only the Father knows. Enough said.
Monday, May 16, 2011
Think Big
I have been reminded again today about how low I allow my expectations of life to be. Don't get me wrong. Things are good. I'm happy. I feel like I am bringing those around me to a higher level most of the time.
However, I could be experiencing so much more. Instead of going for it and having faith that I'll get there, I am just tending to remain in my comfort zone and accept things the way they are.
Thanks to a message I received in the mail today, that mode of thinking is coming to an end. It's time to think big. Dream of things that don't appear to be possible. Imagine all of the greatness my life can be. Act as if I already have it. Forget the comfort zone and doing the things I know I can do. It's time to strive for the things I know I can't do. Instead of relying on my inability, I let God handle the details and allow Him to guide me to the promised land.
I strongly believe it is true for me or anyone else, that if we allow ourselves to dream big, look past our limitations, and faithfully let God run His power rampant in our lives we will experience miracles. It's time to let it happen.
I will share my success. I ask that you do too.
Have an excellent day : )
However, I could be experiencing so much more. Instead of going for it and having faith that I'll get there, I am just tending to remain in my comfort zone and accept things the way they are.
Thanks to a message I received in the mail today, that mode of thinking is coming to an end. It's time to think big. Dream of things that don't appear to be possible. Imagine all of the greatness my life can be. Act as if I already have it. Forget the comfort zone and doing the things I know I can do. It's time to strive for the things I know I can't do. Instead of relying on my inability, I let God handle the details and allow Him to guide me to the promised land.
I strongly believe it is true for me or anyone else, that if we allow ourselves to dream big, look past our limitations, and faithfully let God run His power rampant in our lives we will experience miracles. It's time to let it happen.
I will share my success. I ask that you do too.
Have an excellent day : )
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Power Awareness
Do you know that the power of God dwells in you? Yes, I do too. As as long as we know that, we can accomplish anything, right?
I am finding that it is necessary to do more than just know it. I am challenged to live it, and be CONSTANTLY AWARE of this power. In ever situation I encounter, awareness of this power brings success. The problem is that I often lack this awareness as I go through my day.
If you feel the same, then let's take a constant awareness of God's love and power with us wherever we go. Cherish it, love it, appreciate it. Know that failure is impossible if we spend our day with this confidence and knowledge that we can accomplish anything good with this power.
It is my prayer that God will make us aware of His presence to help us accomplish the greatness He has prepared for us. As always, please share your success stories.
Have an excellent day : )
I am finding that it is necessary to do more than just know it. I am challenged to live it, and be CONSTANTLY AWARE of this power. In ever situation I encounter, awareness of this power brings success. The problem is that I often lack this awareness as I go through my day.
If you feel the same, then let's take a constant awareness of God's love and power with us wherever we go. Cherish it, love it, appreciate it. Know that failure is impossible if we spend our day with this confidence and knowledge that we can accomplish anything good with this power.
It is my prayer that God will make us aware of His presence to help us accomplish the greatness He has prepared for us. As always, please share your success stories.
Have an excellent day : )
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Mind Chatter
Keep saying great things about yourself. Your mind will listen. Positive, inspired action will follow.
Have an excellent day : )
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Boomerang
Cool toy that boomerang is. You throw it away from you and it somehow comes back. You don't have to move and don't even need someone else to play with you.
Why am I talking about boomerangs? Because I have read the same information from several different sources this week. It talks about our feelings and thoughts. It is just like the toy. We "throw" our feelings out there, and whatever they are we get back. For example, if we are throwing positive, loving, optimistic thoughts out there by thinking and acting that way, that is what life returns to us. Unfortunately, it works the same if we throw negatives out there.
This has given me the extra incentive to take full control of my thoughts and feelings. I need to make sure that if I want a good return on the good things in life, I am throwing good things out to it. The downside is that it's not always easy to do and we are still not guaranteed that problems won't arise along the way. However, the good part for all of us is that we have full control! We don't have to be controlled by life's circumstances. We have much of the power that determines how well our lives go. Let us use some of that power to improve the quality of our lives and help others do the same.
Have an excellent day : )
Why am I talking about boomerangs? Because I have read the same information from several different sources this week. It talks about our feelings and thoughts. It is just like the toy. We "throw" our feelings out there, and whatever they are we get back. For example, if we are throwing positive, loving, optimistic thoughts out there by thinking and acting that way, that is what life returns to us. Unfortunately, it works the same if we throw negatives out there.
This has given me the extra incentive to take full control of my thoughts and feelings. I need to make sure that if I want a good return on the good things in life, I am throwing good things out to it. The downside is that it's not always easy to do and we are still not guaranteed that problems won't arise along the way. However, the good part for all of us is that we have full control! We don't have to be controlled by life's circumstances. We have much of the power that determines how well our lives go. Let us use some of that power to improve the quality of our lives and help others do the same.
Have an excellent day : )
Saturday, April 30, 2011
The Excellence of Normal
It was a difficult week for me. I almost never get sick, but I spent Easter flat on my back down and out. The only exercise I had was the frequent walks from my bed to the bathroom. It has taken me almost a week to recover.
It feels so good to be normal again! I can eat what I want, and not have to stop and decide if whatever I do will zap my energy or make me feel sick again. It made me realize how often I take my normal life for granted. Some people live their entire lives feeing like I did. They can't eat or do certain things. They can't go certain places.
I have this strong desire for excellence, and to go above and beyond my current circumstances. Average isn't good enough for me anymore. However, this week has helped me realize how blessed my "normal" life is. I can eat and do what I want. Besides this week, the health of my family and I is excellent. We live in a beautiful house with many "toys". I have a good job (for now anyway).
I wondered why God had me miss the play I was supposed to be in and the excellent family gathering we had on Easter. Now I think I know why. Although I seek greater things, I certainly have a greater appreciation for the normal in my life. I hope your normal is excellent too.
Have an excellent day : )
It feels so good to be normal again! I can eat what I want, and not have to stop and decide if whatever I do will zap my energy or make me feel sick again. It made me realize how often I take my normal life for granted. Some people live their entire lives feeing like I did. They can't eat or do certain things. They can't go certain places.
I have this strong desire for excellence, and to go above and beyond my current circumstances. Average isn't good enough for me anymore. However, this week has helped me realize how blessed my "normal" life is. I can eat and do what I want. Besides this week, the health of my family and I is excellent. We live in a beautiful house with many "toys". I have a good job (for now anyway).
I wondered why God had me miss the play I was supposed to be in and the excellent family gathering we had on Easter. Now I think I know why. Although I seek greater things, I certainly have a greater appreciation for the normal in my life. I hope your normal is excellent too.
Have an excellent day : )
Saturday, April 23, 2011
How To Bring Out the Best In Others
The above title poses an interesting question. If you are like me, you often wonder how you can have positive impacts on others. How can I bring out the best in my kids, siblings, co-workers, or anyone in our lives?
There are many different philosophies for accomplshing this. However, one consistent theory is on most to all of these lists. That would be....drum roll please......be the best YOU that you can possibly be. You may be a bit confused at the moment. After all, this post is supposed to be about impacting others, not ourselves. I understand that. However, I am learning almost daily, that the better I feel about myself, and the more connected I am to the God who created me, the greater impacts I can continually make.
It did not take me too long to verify this based on my own life events. As I look back, the times I felt best about myself were the times I was most influential on others. The times where I lacked confidence and positivity were the times I didn't see the positive response from others.
This has been confirmed in my life lately, so I know its not just a history of coincidence. For the past few months I have felt very close to God, very positive about life, and very confident in the overall goodness of life. Without even going out of my way, people just seem to respond very positively to my demeanor, ideas, and almost seem to know instantly that I am in tune with my best self. It's funny too how, as I try to share this positive energy more, I get more of it back from others.
Please don't get the idea that I am using this space to brag. It just makes me very happy that God would use me to add some good to people's lives. I am thankful that He would consider this little life and imperfect human being to do so. All I have to do is remain close to Him, maintain a positive attitude, and look for small ways to make a difference.
This same formula is true for anyone. If you are looking to make a difference in your world, start from the inside. Know that you are a beautiful creation of the Creator of all. Cherish that idea, be thankful for the good you have in your life, and look for ways to share it. You will be amazed by the way people notice and seem to gravitate towards you without you saying a word. Then the positives snowball from there.
As always, I am always looking to learn more about a topic like this. If you have seen things work effectively in your life, please share.
Have an excellent day : )
There are many different philosophies for accomplshing this. However, one consistent theory is on most to all of these lists. That would be....drum roll please......be the best YOU that you can possibly be. You may be a bit confused at the moment. After all, this post is supposed to be about impacting others, not ourselves. I understand that. However, I am learning almost daily, that the better I feel about myself, and the more connected I am to the God who created me, the greater impacts I can continually make.
It did not take me too long to verify this based on my own life events. As I look back, the times I felt best about myself were the times I was most influential on others. The times where I lacked confidence and positivity were the times I didn't see the positive response from others.
This has been confirmed in my life lately, so I know its not just a history of coincidence. For the past few months I have felt very close to God, very positive about life, and very confident in the overall goodness of life. Without even going out of my way, people just seem to respond very positively to my demeanor, ideas, and almost seem to know instantly that I am in tune with my best self. It's funny too how, as I try to share this positive energy more, I get more of it back from others.
Please don't get the idea that I am using this space to brag. It just makes me very happy that God would use me to add some good to people's lives. I am thankful that He would consider this little life and imperfect human being to do so. All I have to do is remain close to Him, maintain a positive attitude, and look for small ways to make a difference.
This same formula is true for anyone. If you are looking to make a difference in your world, start from the inside. Know that you are a beautiful creation of the Creator of all. Cherish that idea, be thankful for the good you have in your life, and look for ways to share it. You will be amazed by the way people notice and seem to gravitate towards you without you saying a word. Then the positives snowball from there.
As always, I am always looking to learn more about a topic like this. If you have seen things work effectively in your life, please share.
Have an excellent day : )
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Life is Like the Weather
Here in Buffalo NY we are having a miserable Spring. This being after a rough winter. However, I know that better days are ahead. We are suffering now, but I am confident that we will have a beautiful summer and autumn as we usually do. We just have to wait a little bit longer.
Isn't life the same in many cases? We sometimes go through difficult times. Things are cold and rough, and we are not experiencing the growth we would like. However, in those cases we need to move ahead knowing that, as long as we do all we can, greener pastures are ahead.
I am focused on all of the great things the beautiful weather will bring. I know without a doubt it will be here soon. We need to do the same for our goals. Focus on the greatness that will be added to our lives as a result of our goals being accomplished. Know absolutely that as the winter/spring changes to summer, our lives will experience the necessary change as long as we know it and take the necessary action.
Hopefully it is already Spring in your part of the world. If so, be thankful and enjoy it. If not, believe and know things will be better soon. Sunny times are not far behind.
Have an excellent day : )
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
I'm Willing to Share
As I have some down time to reflect this week, I am realizing how blessed I am in many areas. I am especially noticing and appreciating the generosity that people have been sharing with me. For example, when my family and I went to Florida this past February we were showered with generosity and the warmest welcomes from both sides of the family. That is just one of several examples I can provide.
The bottom line is that I am blessed in so many ways. If you asked me to list them all I wouldn't even be able to. It is because of this that I have the strong desire to give back. I have many blessings, talents, dollars, etc that I can easily share. It's time to start seriously asking God how I can use these to be a blessing for others. I will say that I am quick to give when others ask, and I tithe regularly. My goal now is to take the initiative and find ways to bless others without them having to ask me for it. As much as I am good to the people in my life, this has always been an area where I have been slow to act. Not because I don't want to, but it's not something I focus on as much as I should.
I know that with God's help I can change in this area. I pray that God opens my eyes and helps me notice how I can use the many blessings He has given me and share them with others. I would appreciate your prayers as well. I will certainly share the results.
Have an excellent day : )
The bottom line is that I am blessed in so many ways. If you asked me to list them all I wouldn't even be able to. It is because of this that I have the strong desire to give back. I have many blessings, talents, dollars, etc that I can easily share. It's time to start seriously asking God how I can use these to be a blessing for others. I will say that I am quick to give when others ask, and I tithe regularly. My goal now is to take the initiative and find ways to bless others without them having to ask me for it. As much as I am good to the people in my life, this has always been an area where I have been slow to act. Not because I don't want to, but it's not something I focus on as much as I should.
I know that with God's help I can change in this area. I pray that God opens my eyes and helps me notice how I can use the many blessings He has given me and share them with others. I would appreciate your prayers as well. I will certainly share the results.
Have an excellent day : )
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Advanced Praise
I enjoyed a great church service this morning. We were given an excellent message. It's one I've heard before, but haven't been practicing as much as I should lately.
The pastors (yes, it was a group sermon today) were talking about praising God in all circumstances. If you are going through a battle (most of us have at least one in our lives) it is important to continue praising God, even though we are not seeing the desired results yet. Thank Him in advance for the great work He is doing. It is not always easy, especially if we are facing a major challenge. However, I have found that it is worth doing.
I have always found this beneficial during the times I have practiced it. First of all, it brings a major peace to the situation. Second, it takes our focus off the problem and places it on Him. That's a great thing because I know I have a much better chance of winning the battle with God fighting it than I do fighting in my own strength. Third, I strongly believe the victory is won sooner. God rewards us for having faith and placing our trust in Him. The victory is not always how we would see it, but it is always good.
I take this with me for the rest of this day, and for this break of a week I have. My goal is to constantly be praising and thankful so that it becomes a habitual and regular attitude. I can't wait to see the positive effects.
The pastors (yes, it was a group sermon today) were talking about praising God in all circumstances. If you are going through a battle (most of us have at least one in our lives) it is important to continue praising God, even though we are not seeing the desired results yet. Thank Him in advance for the great work He is doing. It is not always easy, especially if we are facing a major challenge. However, I have found that it is worth doing.
I have always found this beneficial during the times I have practiced it. First of all, it brings a major peace to the situation. Second, it takes our focus off the problem and places it on Him. That's a great thing because I know I have a much better chance of winning the battle with God fighting it than I do fighting in my own strength. Third, I strongly believe the victory is won sooner. God rewards us for having faith and placing our trust in Him. The victory is not always how we would see it, but it is always good.
I take this with me for the rest of this day, and for this break of a week I have. My goal is to constantly be praising and thankful so that it becomes a habitual and regular attitude. I can't wait to see the positive effects.
Anytime, Anywhere
I don't have many complaints in life these days except one. Lately, my prayer life is not as good as I would like it to be. I am still close to God and definitely see and feel His presence in my life. However, I don't feel like I'm living up to my end of the prayer bargain. It's not that I don't want to, it's just that time disappears quickly, and I am not prioritizing that time correctly. Does anyone else ever feel that way?
I was reminded this morning that it doesn't have to be that way. Even if I am busy and time does fly by quickly, there are times where I can take that time to pray and reflect. For example, what do we think of when we shower, shave, put make-up on, etc? Do we actually think of how clean or perfectly "made up" we are making ourselves? For me, I either think of nothing, or actually let some worrisome or stressful thoughts enter my head during those times.
Instead, why not take these times to pray? Or, to load our heads with positive encouraging thoughts? Or, just make ourselves completely aware of the Presence that is always with us and looking out for our good? The bottom line is that we don't have to be in the perfect prayer and reflection spot every time. God appreciates any communication no matter where we are and when it is. I prayed and reflected as I showered and shaved this morning, and it has postively affected my whole outlook on the day.
This is nothing new for me. For a while now I have been aware that we should take as much time (especially down time) to reflect on positive thoughts and our protective Presence. It is just a matter of making the conscious effort to do it.
That's the challenge I leave today. Anytime we have the opportunity, let's take it to pray and positively reflect on the beautiful loving Spirit that is around us and in us. If you're like me you'll always end up in the longest line at the supermarket. So why not take that time to reflect. A long line of commercials during the tv show? Take a couple of minutes to do the same. Stuck in traffic? You know the drill. Prayer and positive reflection will easily turn that frown upside down. Please be sure to share your results.
Have an excellent day : )
I was reminded this morning that it doesn't have to be that way. Even if I am busy and time does fly by quickly, there are times where I can take that time to pray and reflect. For example, what do we think of when we shower, shave, put make-up on, etc? Do we actually think of how clean or perfectly "made up" we are making ourselves? For me, I either think of nothing, or actually let some worrisome or stressful thoughts enter my head during those times.
Instead, why not take these times to pray? Or, to load our heads with positive encouraging thoughts? Or, just make ourselves completely aware of the Presence that is always with us and looking out for our good? The bottom line is that we don't have to be in the perfect prayer and reflection spot every time. God appreciates any communication no matter where we are and when it is. I prayed and reflected as I showered and shaved this morning, and it has postively affected my whole outlook on the day.
This is nothing new for me. For a while now I have been aware that we should take as much time (especially down time) to reflect on positive thoughts and our protective Presence. It is just a matter of making the conscious effort to do it.
That's the challenge I leave today. Anytime we have the opportunity, let's take it to pray and positively reflect on the beautiful loving Spirit that is around us and in us. If you're like me you'll always end up in the longest line at the supermarket. So why not take that time to reflect. A long line of commercials during the tv show? Take a couple of minutes to do the same. Stuck in traffic? You know the drill. Prayer and positive reflection will easily turn that frown upside down. Please be sure to share your results.
Have an excellent day : )
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Progress Reports
(This was actually written Thursday Aprl 14)...I am feeling some extra energy today as I was able to sleep in a bit. It's parent conference day at my school and I don't have to be there until noon. I always enjoy these days because I am able to share all of the great things my students are doing in my class with their parents.
Wait a minute, what about the ones who create distractions in the class or don't do their work? Isn't this a golden opportunity to get back at them by letting their parents know? Yes, those situations are addressed. However, every one of my students has at least one positive thing they do. It is these that I focus on when talking to the parents.
I believe in the importance of doing this in our lives as well. We all make mistakes and we need to correct those and learn from them. However, each one of has a great deal of positives webring to the world. I believe it is up to us to focus on those. The more we do, the more we can do for ourselves and others as well. The more we focus on the positive qualities of the people around us, the more likely we are to see those qualities continue.
It's a simple fact that when we focus on the positives in our lives we tend to see mostly positive results. It helps with the negatives too. By maintaining a positive focus, it either causes the negatives to disappear on their own, or it helps us find the solution to the problem. Either way we win
Have an excellent day : )
Wait a minute, what about the ones who create distractions in the class or don't do their work? Isn't this a golden opportunity to get back at them by letting their parents know? Yes, those situations are addressed. However, every one of my students has at least one positive thing they do. It is these that I focus on when talking to the parents.
I believe in the importance of doing this in our lives as well. We all make mistakes and we need to correct those and learn from them. However, each one of has a great deal of positives webring to the world. I believe it is up to us to focus on those. The more we do, the more we can do for ourselves and others as well. The more we focus on the positive qualities of the people around us, the more likely we are to see those qualities continue.
It's a simple fact that when we focus on the positives in our lives we tend to see mostly positive results. It helps with the negatives too. By maintaining a positive focus, it either causes the negatives to disappear on their own, or it helps us find the solution to the problem. Either way we win
Have an excellent day : )
A Rainy Saturday
Downer, right? Not necessarily. I could use a day to do nothing and just relax. Besides, it's day one of Spring Break, so optimism is in the air!
I went to Florida in February, so I am actually looking forward to having a week with no plans. I just look forward to getting some reading and writing done, playing some tennis, and spending time with friends and family. Most importantly, I am physically and mentally exhausted, so I look forward to catching up on sleep and clearing my head. Of course it's important that I fill my mind with hopeful, positive thoughts and share them with the people I spend time with. I will definitely do that.
So rainy days and Saturdays don't always get me down. I'll be enjoying this one and hope you do too : )
I went to Florida in February, so I am actually looking forward to having a week with no plans. I just look forward to getting some reading and writing done, playing some tennis, and spending time with friends and family. Most importantly, I am physically and mentally exhausted, so I look forward to catching up on sleep and clearing my head. Of course it's important that I fill my mind with hopeful, positive thoughts and share them with the people I spend time with. I will definitely do that.
So rainy days and Saturdays don't always get me down. I'll be enjoying this one and hope you do too : )
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Unconscious Success
In my previous post I discussed the concept of the subconscious mind, and how certain things become automatic because they are engrained in our subconscious. I mentioned that I would provide specific examples of how we can use our conscious mind to influence our subconscious.
One thing I did not mention in the previous post is that our subconscious cannot tell the difference between real or imagined events. What this means is that we can control the thoughts that enter our subconcious. If we imagine the results we want to achieve, being the person we want to be, and having the health, finances, etc that we want to have, our subconscious ultimately believes it. The result is that we act accordingly. For example, if you are seeking greater self-confidence, imagine yourself as the confident person you want to be. See the positive reactions from others. Experience the results of greater confidence. Live it in your mind. Ultimately, you begin to see yourself as that person. Eventually, the results of this confidence are not only imagined, but lived out in real life.
I have practiced this and seen great results. For example, my wife and I were having some difficulties in our marriage. Rather than point the finger at her, I began to look within myself. I imagined myself as the perfect husband (even though I am far from it). I imagined myself doing things and making my wife very happy. What ultimately happened, is I began believing that I was a great husband. I then began doing things that would back that up. I became more confident in my ability to serve my wife and make her happy. As a result, it has actually happened. My wife is happier, all because I saw myself as someone who could be a good spouse, and then became a much better one.
I was also struggling at my job. Some negative things were going on there. Instead of making the best of it, I complained much more than I should have, and really began resenting being there. Finally, I followed the same steps. I saw myself being the best teacher I could be. I imagined a positive attitude, and the impacts it created for the kids I teach and adults I work with. I saw the smiles on their faces, and the growth in their lives. Once again, my mind believed it. My confidence grew, and much of what I imagined began coming true. Things there are still not perfect, but my job performance has improved, my attitude is positive, and people are being positively impacted as a result.
These are just two examples of how we can influence our subconscious minds. Remember, our subsconscious is our autopilot. If it is filled with thoughts of confidence and competence, our life will be a result of that. We will enjoy it more, and our confidence and ability will snowball. It is up to us to consciously fill our minds with positive and powerful thoughts. By doing so, I guarantee you will reap the benefits. I surely have.
Please be sure to share your success stories. Have an excellent day : )
One thing I did not mention in the previous post is that our subconscious cannot tell the difference between real or imagined events. What this means is that we can control the thoughts that enter our subconcious. If we imagine the results we want to achieve, being the person we want to be, and having the health, finances, etc that we want to have, our subconscious ultimately believes it. The result is that we act accordingly. For example, if you are seeking greater self-confidence, imagine yourself as the confident person you want to be. See the positive reactions from others. Experience the results of greater confidence. Live it in your mind. Ultimately, you begin to see yourself as that person. Eventually, the results of this confidence are not only imagined, but lived out in real life.
I have practiced this and seen great results. For example, my wife and I were having some difficulties in our marriage. Rather than point the finger at her, I began to look within myself. I imagined myself as the perfect husband (even though I am far from it). I imagined myself doing things and making my wife very happy. What ultimately happened, is I began believing that I was a great husband. I then began doing things that would back that up. I became more confident in my ability to serve my wife and make her happy. As a result, it has actually happened. My wife is happier, all because I saw myself as someone who could be a good spouse, and then became a much better one.
I was also struggling at my job. Some negative things were going on there. Instead of making the best of it, I complained much more than I should have, and really began resenting being there. Finally, I followed the same steps. I saw myself being the best teacher I could be. I imagined a positive attitude, and the impacts it created for the kids I teach and adults I work with. I saw the smiles on their faces, and the growth in their lives. Once again, my mind believed it. My confidence grew, and much of what I imagined began coming true. Things there are still not perfect, but my job performance has improved, my attitude is positive, and people are being positively impacted as a result.
These are just two examples of how we can influence our subconscious minds. Remember, our subsconscious is our autopilot. If it is filled with thoughts of confidence and competence, our life will be a result of that. We will enjoy it more, and our confidence and ability will snowball. It is up to us to consciously fill our minds with positive and powerful thoughts. By doing so, I guarantee you will reap the benefits. I surely have.
Please be sure to share your success stories. Have an excellent day : )
Thoughtful Reflection
Here's a great quote from author Napolean Hill...life is a mirror of our consistent thoughts. I am realizing more and more each day how true this is. Our current lives are the way they are because of the thoughts we have focused most on. You may or may not believe it. However, I have seen its reality in my own life. The more positive my thoughts are, the better the results.
If you are looking to change situations in your life you can start by changing your thoughts about them. Its amazing how the correct action follows shortly after. It's simple but very true. Try it for yourself!
Have an excellent day : )
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Tale of the Tie
Here's a first. My daughter, of all people, asked me to help her tie a tie. It should have been no problem. After all, I've been tying my own tie for almost 20 years. Yet I couldn't do it.
How could something like this be so automatic, yet impossible to teach? I am reading more and more about the battle of our conscious mind and our subconscious. There are many differences, but for now I'll provide the crash course version. The conscious mind is what we are thinking about, the front of our mind per se. The subconscious is the automatic part. After a thought or action is drilled into our conscious mind over a period of time, it eventually becomes part of our subconscious. We then act accordingly.
When I first learned to tie a tie, it was a conscious effort. I had to think a lot about the correct steps. It took a while, and it was difficult. However, after doing it over a long period of time, the process became subconscious. I didn't even have to think about it. It just became second nature, and I was able to accomplish the task with ease. So why so much difficulty in teaching this to my daughter? It is because I had to do it consciously. It wasn't automatic as I tried to take it step by step. Once again, it became a difficult process like it was in the beginning.
What's my point? I am finding that it is much easier to live our desired lives subconsciously. Does that mean we don't rely on our conscious mind? Absolutely not. We need to think things out. We can also use it to help our subconscious. Here is a great key to making any ncessary changes in your life: Use your conscious mind to see yourself succeeding and accomplishing the goal you desire. Then take whatever action you believe is necessary. Just like the tie, it may seem unnatural and difficult at first. However, if you continue to take steps and move forward, it eventually becomes automatic, and your normal way of life. Before you know it, the goal is reached.
If you think this is too simple, I don't blame you. I thought this at first too. However, it didn't take me long to realize its truth. In the past few months, this has helped my self-confidence sky-rocket. That in turn has affected other areas of my life in a positive way. In my next post, I will provide specific examples of how it has helped me and can help you too.
Have an excellent day : )
How could something like this be so automatic, yet impossible to teach? I am reading more and more about the battle of our conscious mind and our subconscious. There are many differences, but for now I'll provide the crash course version. The conscious mind is what we are thinking about, the front of our mind per se. The subconscious is the automatic part. After a thought or action is drilled into our conscious mind over a period of time, it eventually becomes part of our subconscious. We then act accordingly.
When I first learned to tie a tie, it was a conscious effort. I had to think a lot about the correct steps. It took a while, and it was difficult. However, after doing it over a long period of time, the process became subconscious. I didn't even have to think about it. It just became second nature, and I was able to accomplish the task with ease. So why so much difficulty in teaching this to my daughter? It is because I had to do it consciously. It wasn't automatic as I tried to take it step by step. Once again, it became a difficult process like it was in the beginning.
What's my point? I am finding that it is much easier to live our desired lives subconsciously. Does that mean we don't rely on our conscious mind? Absolutely not. We need to think things out. We can also use it to help our subconscious. Here is a great key to making any ncessary changes in your life: Use your conscious mind to see yourself succeeding and accomplishing the goal you desire. Then take whatever action you believe is necessary. Just like the tie, it may seem unnatural and difficult at first. However, if you continue to take steps and move forward, it eventually becomes automatic, and your normal way of life. Before you know it, the goal is reached.
If you think this is too simple, I don't blame you. I thought this at first too. However, it didn't take me long to realize its truth. In the past few months, this has helped my self-confidence sky-rocket. That in turn has affected other areas of my life in a positive way. In my next post, I will provide specific examples of how it has helped me and can help you too.
Have an excellent day : )
The Rough is Only Mental
I am stealing this quote from author/pastor Norman Vincent Peale and his book, "The Power of Positive Thinking". I was reminded of it today and felt the need to share.
What does it mean? It is taken from the story of a golfer. When he was on the fairway (the short grass) he had no problem hitting the ball well. However, when he was off the fairway (golfers call this the rough) he had severe difficulty hitting the ball well. However, his partner had no difficulty with this and hit the ball just as well from the rough than from the fairway. Why? He said it was all mental. He believed he could hit the ball just as well from the rough. He just had to make some slight adjustments.
It can be the same in every situation for us. Things are only as difficult as we decide they are. Obstacles are only as big as we think they are. The key? Focus on the successful completion of the task or goal. Sometimes it will be as easy to get there as a shot in the middle of the fairway. Other times we will be presented with obstacles or greater challenges. Either way, if we seek the ideal result and see the obstacles as learning and growing opportunities, we will reach our goals and ideal life much sooner. Before long we will dismiss the obstacles completely and life will be a hole in one!
Enjoy : )
What does it mean? It is taken from the story of a golfer. When he was on the fairway (the short grass) he had no problem hitting the ball well. However, when he was off the fairway (golfers call this the rough) he had severe difficulty hitting the ball well. However, his partner had no difficulty with this and hit the ball just as well from the rough than from the fairway. Why? He said it was all mental. He believed he could hit the ball just as well from the rough. He just had to make some slight adjustments.
It can be the same in every situation for us. Things are only as difficult as we decide they are. Obstacles are only as big as we think they are. The key? Focus on the successful completion of the task or goal. Sometimes it will be as easy to get there as a shot in the middle of the fairway. Other times we will be presented with obstacles or greater challenges. Either way, if we seek the ideal result and see the obstacles as learning and growing opportunities, we will reach our goals and ideal life much sooner. Before long we will dismiss the obstacles completely and life will be a hole in one!
Enjoy : )
Positive Report
If you are a Bible reader, do you have any particular love-hate verses? For me there are some. I love them because they are very powerful. I hate them because they sometimes strike me right between the eyes. Can you relate?
One of these verses is found in Numbers 13. Moses and the people of Israel are ready to enter the Promised Land. He sends 12 men to scout the land and bring back a report. 10 of the 12 see giant people and obstacles that they believe they cannot overcome, and they discourage the people from moving forward. Two of them report that, with God's help, they can overcome these obstacles and enter the Promised Land.
Unfortunately, majority rules. As a result, the people are punished for their lack of faith. Instead of taking another few days to get to the Promised Land, it takes another few years. 40 to be exact.
For me, here's the reason for the love-hate. The verse is extremely powerful. These people are delayed their gift by 40 years because of lack of faith. On the other side, the two are right. Anything is possible if we believe. I hate this verse because it makes me think of how many times I have acted as the 10. All I see is the potential obstacle and the giants in the way. I don't take necessary action because of it, and potential blessings are delayed or missed altogether as a result.
How can we change this? Simply take the attitude of the two. KNOW that God is with us always. KNOW that victory is guaranteed as a result. By having this faith, we will enter our Promised Land much sooner than later. Keep the ultimate, ideal goal in the front of your mind. Do your part and let God do His. Since I have been doing this more, I have seen greater results. It then makes we want to continue this course. It is true for anyone.
Can you see your Promised Land now? Great! Go for it, knowing that any giants and obstacles cannot get in the way as long as you don't let them. I hope to hear of your success sooner than later.
Have an excellent day : )
One of these verses is found in Numbers 13. Moses and the people of Israel are ready to enter the Promised Land. He sends 12 men to scout the land and bring back a report. 10 of the 12 see giant people and obstacles that they believe they cannot overcome, and they discourage the people from moving forward. Two of them report that, with God's help, they can overcome these obstacles and enter the Promised Land.
Unfortunately, majority rules. As a result, the people are punished for their lack of faith. Instead of taking another few days to get to the Promised Land, it takes another few years. 40 to be exact.
For me, here's the reason for the love-hate. The verse is extremely powerful. These people are delayed their gift by 40 years because of lack of faith. On the other side, the two are right. Anything is possible if we believe. I hate this verse because it makes me think of how many times I have acted as the 10. All I see is the potential obstacle and the giants in the way. I don't take necessary action because of it, and potential blessings are delayed or missed altogether as a result.
How can we change this? Simply take the attitude of the two. KNOW that God is with us always. KNOW that victory is guaranteed as a result. By having this faith, we will enter our Promised Land much sooner than later. Keep the ultimate, ideal goal in the front of your mind. Do your part and let God do His. Since I have been doing this more, I have seen greater results. It then makes we want to continue this course. It is true for anyone.
Can you see your Promised Land now? Great! Go for it, knowing that any giants and obstacles cannot get in the way as long as you don't let them. I hope to hear of your success sooner than later.
Have an excellent day : )
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Spring the Way It's Supposed to Be
There are certain things I envision when I think of early Spring: nice sunny weather; baseball; time outside; longer days; things getting greener. Well, they're all happening today. Oh, and it's the weekend too! Do you think I'm a little happy?
I hope you are enjoying it too : )
I hope you are enjoying it too : )
Friday, April 8, 2011
Believe First
Why is it that I continue to read some great Bible verses and fail to live them out fully? Do you too feel that way? I am done trying to answer that question. It's time to just do it!
One of these verses is from Matthew 21:22. It says..if you believe you will receive anything you ask for in prayer. How much clearer can that be? It's a verse I often meditate on, and one of my favorites in the entire Bible.
So what's the best way to follow this? One simple word...Believe!!! But how? What helps me is to focus on the desired result. See it happening and imagine life as you would want it. Then feel the positive emotions and live it out as if it is actually happening.
You may think this is easier said than done. At first yes, but the more you practice it the easier it becomes. It's simply a matter of focus. The times I lack faith are the times I am not focusing my mind correctly. I am focused on worry instead of wonderful promises like these.
Ultimately, if you want to receive you must first believe. Then, as is promised, you will receive anything you believe is possible. It's a promise from a God who keeps ALL of His promises. Live this verse in faith and miracles will happen. Please share when they do.
Have an excellent day : )
Monday, April 4, 2011
Correct Focus
Wow, what a non-stop day! Some issues this morning caused me to be 15 minutes late for work. I had one 45 minute break from 8 to 4:30. Then an hour meeting afterwards. Dinner was a mystery shop, and now I sit at 6:30 for an oil change appointment.
Yes, it's a long day. Yes, many others have it worse. Do I dwell on the craziness? I could, and on certain days a day like this would affect me more. However, if I keep my mind on positive things, it will still be a great day. What positive things? The fact that God is with me every step of the way; the fact that He is using me to positively affect those around me; the fact I am blessed beyond what I deserve; the fact that life is as good as I can believe it to be.
Yes, I will be tired when I go to bed (after the NCAA final of course). However, by focusing on keeping a positive frame of mind, I will do so with a smile on my face. I hope you will too : )
Sunday, April 3, 2011
The Power of Forgiveness
I was doing some thinking this morning. I was trying to figure out how to pay off the mountain of credit card debt I have. Then I started thinking some positive thoughts. I saw myself as debt free. I prayed to God and thanked Him in advance for His help. Total optimism was in the air!
But wait! This can't happen. I don't deserve it. After all, I am the only reason for this debt mess. It's because of my bad financial decisions, incorrect priorities, and not pursuing some potential opportunites. God says I'm supposed to be a good steward. In many aspects I have failed in that area. So I guess I should forget my financial miracle, right?
Not so fast. A bit later I am reminded of the power of God's forgiveness. We all make mistakes. Some of us make more than others. However, in EVERY case, we are forgiven. If we don't believe that, then Jesus died on the cross in vain. I am sorry, but I do not want to be a person that this act of love is wasted on.
It is this great news that I now focus on. How are we forgiven? All we have to do is ask. How much are we forgiven? Completely. As an old song says, our sins are on the bottom of the ocean floor. Unlike the famous ship, God does not go digging for them years later. They are gone and forgotten forever. Our job is to move on, learn, and do our best to avoid making the same mistakes.
So now I take the next steps with confidence. I pray with all of my heart; I have extreme faith; I see financial freedom in my mind; I take the steps necessary to achieve it. All with the confidence that my past mistakes are forgotten forever. Now that's power and freedom!
This power and freedom are available to anyone. In fact, God is waiting for you to ask. If you haven't already I suggest you experience it for yourself.
Have an excellent day : )
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Good Luck
I can still hear that old Rod Stewart song today..."some guys have all the luck". Isn't it true? Some people just seem to get all the lucky breaks. They win the games, things work out right, and things just seem to go their way. Lucky people!
Or are they? Is it luck, or is there something else to it. Can we control our own luck or lack of it? I honestly think we can, and we do. How? It's how we think. Many people succeed simply because they know they can. Things go their way because they know they will. It's no coincidence that people who think positively are usually the ones who get the breaks.
So now that you know you have some control, do something about it! If things haven't been going your way, start thinking differently. See yourself succeeding. See yourself with what you want. Believe it will happen.
The next time you think how lucky someone is, know that you can begin to have more luck go your way too. Focus on positive results, and you will see more of them.
Good luck : )
Positive Guide to the Perfect Saturday
Happy Saturday! It's easily my favorite day of the week. Here's how I'll be keeping a positive frame of mind:
1. Enjoying the sports. - There are plenty to watch. I'll enjoy some tennis, baseball, and of course the Final Four games.
2. Spend time with my wonderful family. Based on the weather it will be indoors though. Regardless, the time will be great and I am truly blessed to have the family I do.
3. Positive reflection. - During the down times I will be sure to flood my mind with positive thoughts. Gratitude for all I have; scenes of success to come and goals being accomplished; positive impacts being made.
That's just a snapshot. God has given us this day, and I am thankful. How will you enjoy this beautiful day? Please share.
Enjoy : )
Friday, April 1, 2011
Feeling Thankful
Thank God it's Friday!! Friday always feels great. It's also a reminder to feel thankful and great as much as we can every other day too. What is it you want right now? A great way to see it in your life sooner is to be thankful for what you already have. Also, imagine the feeling of your wish already happening. Carry that happy, thankful feeling with you throughout the day. Then watch as it begins to manifest for real. Believe me, I've seen it happen many times in my own life.
Have a fantastic Friday : )
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
The Start of a New Season
One of my favorite things on this earth (besides my family and friends) is baseball. As of March 31 a new season is upon us. Besides the excitment of my favorite sport being available to watch regularly for the next 7 months, I enjoy this time for other reasons as well. The start of a new baseball season represents several things, such as:
1. Renewal - There is no better time for such a wonderful sport like baseball to start than in Spring. The dead of winter is now becoming the growth of Spring. The grey is becoming green again; flowers are beginning to bloom; the sound of singing birds is returning; warmer temperatures enable us to return to the beautiful outdoors. These are several examples. I'm sure you can think of others that appeal to you.
2. Hope - My favorite team is the New York Mets. If you read the pre-season reports, many are saying the Mets will not do well this year. Unfortunately, they are probably right. However, at this time, there is always hope. No matter how poorly they've done in the past or are are predicted to do this year, every team is just as good as the other right now. Every fan can dream World Series. Yes, for some reality hits fast, but for now everyone has a chance. It's like the New York lottery slogan..."hey, ya never know". In many cases, the teams that get to the World Series are not the ones people expected to be there in the beginning of the season.
3. Excellent competition - Yes, there are 162 games. However, each one can make a difference in the end. The thing I like about baseball players is they play most games as if it were the last. The results are not always there, but I rarely get the feeling a player or team is not taking the game seriously. Besides, baseball is the type of game I can enjoy o any beautiful afternoon or evening, especially with a bag of chips or peanuts in one hand, and a cold drink in the other.
These are just a few reasons I enjoy the game so much. I love it for what it is and for what it represents. Now the wait is over. So take me out to the ballgame, buy me some peanuts and cracker jack, and PLAY BALL!
Enjoy!
1. Renewal - There is no better time for such a wonderful sport like baseball to start than in Spring. The dead of winter is now becoming the growth of Spring. The grey is becoming green again; flowers are beginning to bloom; the sound of singing birds is returning; warmer temperatures enable us to return to the beautiful outdoors. These are several examples. I'm sure you can think of others that appeal to you.
2. Hope - My favorite team is the New York Mets. If you read the pre-season reports, many are saying the Mets will not do well this year. Unfortunately, they are probably right. However, at this time, there is always hope. No matter how poorly they've done in the past or are are predicted to do this year, every team is just as good as the other right now. Every fan can dream World Series. Yes, for some reality hits fast, but for now everyone has a chance. It's like the New York lottery slogan..."hey, ya never know". In many cases, the teams that get to the World Series are not the ones people expected to be there in the beginning of the season.
3. Excellent competition - Yes, there are 162 games. However, each one can make a difference in the end. The thing I like about baseball players is they play most games as if it were the last. The results are not always there, but I rarely get the feeling a player or team is not taking the game seriously. Besides, baseball is the type of game I can enjoy o any beautiful afternoon or evening, especially with a bag of chips or peanuts in one hand, and a cold drink in the other.
These are just a few reasons I enjoy the game so much. I love it for what it is and for what it represents. Now the wait is over. So take me out to the ballgame, buy me some peanuts and cracker jack, and PLAY BALL!
Enjoy!
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Affirm Greatness
I see a lot online and in books these days about something called affirmations. Affirmations are things that we tell ourselves over and over again. For example, if you are seeking more confidence, you can keep affirming, "I am confident". If you want to feel more healthy, keep affirming, "I feel great". The point is to convince our subconscious that it is true, and we eventually believe it and act accordingly.
Do affirmations work? Will my subconscious be smart enough to believe something I tell it over and over again? Can I change my life just by telling myself things? From my experience affirmations do work. Whether you realize it or not, you are telling yourself things all the time anyway. And you believe it. For example, if you are not as healthy as you would like to be, you may be telling yourself (consciously or unconsciously) how tired you are, or you are focusing on the aches and pains or stress in your life. If you are lacking confidence, you are somehow telling yourself that you are not good enough. It is human nature, and we do it all the time.
Instead, tell yourself how great you are! Tell yourself that you have all kinds of energy and you feel great. Look in the mirror and tell yourself how great you look. Tell yourself that you deserve that promotion at work and the extra money that comes with it. Tell yourself what a great romantic partner you are, or would be. Also very importantly, remind yourself that God is with you always and you can't fail with Him by your side.
The key is to tell your mind what you want it to hear. What happens is that you ultimately believe it, and become what you want to be. There is nothing wrong with teling yourself great things and looking for big things. It positively affects all areas of your life. You will be blessed and be a blessing to others. Everyone wins! Affirm greatness. It's there if you want it.
Have an excellent day : )
Do affirmations work? Will my subconscious be smart enough to believe something I tell it over and over again? Can I change my life just by telling myself things? From my experience affirmations do work. Whether you realize it or not, you are telling yourself things all the time anyway. And you believe it. For example, if you are not as healthy as you would like to be, you may be telling yourself (consciously or unconsciously) how tired you are, or you are focusing on the aches and pains or stress in your life. If you are lacking confidence, you are somehow telling yourself that you are not good enough. It is human nature, and we do it all the time.
Instead, tell yourself how great you are! Tell yourself that you have all kinds of energy and you feel great. Look in the mirror and tell yourself how great you look. Tell yourself that you deserve that promotion at work and the extra money that comes with it. Tell yourself what a great romantic partner you are, or would be. Also very importantly, remind yourself that God is with you always and you can't fail with Him by your side.
The key is to tell your mind what you want it to hear. What happens is that you ultimately believe it, and become what you want to be. There is nothing wrong with teling yourself great things and looking for big things. It positively affects all areas of your life. You will be blessed and be a blessing to others. Everyone wins! Affirm greatness. It's there if you want it.
Have an excellent day : )
Monday, March 28, 2011
Let Your Light Shine
You may remember the old church song..."this little light of mine. I'm gonna let it shine." I always liked it. It's a catchy song and it has great meaning.
The question people sometimes ask is, "how do I let my light shine?" It's a great question. In the Bible it tells us to avoid hiding our light, but to let our light shine brightly instead. However, the instructions for doing so are not easily found. In thinking about this lately, I believe I can condense it to 3 simple steps:
1. Know that God is always with us - He is the light of the world, and is a part of our being. The more we consciously realize this, the more positive and powerful are lives can be.
2. Be the best person you can be - Notice how I didn't say be perfect. That's impossible for us. However, the more we focus on being the best person we can be, and use our unique God-given talents without fear of what others may think, the more positive impacts we can make.
3, Let God do the rest - His power is far greater than anything we can ever muster up. When we allow His work to be done in our lives, His light comes shining through ever so brightly.
As you can see, there is not a whole lot we have to do. One may ask, what about the action part? Great question. It is part of the equation. However, I find that the more I try to do, the less I actually accomplish. When I follow the guidelines above, and I pray for direction, I am often directed to the next steps. If I obey that direction and take those next steps, it is much easier to take action. This is because instead of doing what I think I should be doing, I am taking God-inspired action and I have His complete power backing me up. It is then that I can accomplish anything.
If you are looking to let your light shine brightly and positively affect those around you, I recommend these steps. I can only recommend them because this formula has worked very well for me. I know because I can see the positive reactions of the people around me. I also know that it's not me, but that Godly light shining through me that they are seeing. All because I have increased my awareness of it and let it shine in every area of my life. If it is true for me, it is true for anyone.
Have an excellent day : )
The question people sometimes ask is, "how do I let my light shine?" It's a great question. In the Bible it tells us to avoid hiding our light, but to let our light shine brightly instead. However, the instructions for doing so are not easily found. In thinking about this lately, I believe I can condense it to 3 simple steps:
1. Know that God is always with us - He is the light of the world, and is a part of our being. The more we consciously realize this, the more positive and powerful are lives can be.
2. Be the best person you can be - Notice how I didn't say be perfect. That's impossible for us. However, the more we focus on being the best person we can be, and use our unique God-given talents without fear of what others may think, the more positive impacts we can make.
3, Let God do the rest - His power is far greater than anything we can ever muster up. When we allow His work to be done in our lives, His light comes shining through ever so brightly.
As you can see, there is not a whole lot we have to do. One may ask, what about the action part? Great question. It is part of the equation. However, I find that the more I try to do, the less I actually accomplish. When I follow the guidelines above, and I pray for direction, I am often directed to the next steps. If I obey that direction and take those next steps, it is much easier to take action. This is because instead of doing what I think I should be doing, I am taking God-inspired action and I have His complete power backing me up. It is then that I can accomplish anything.
If you are looking to let your light shine brightly and positively affect those around you, I recommend these steps. I can only recommend them because this formula has worked very well for me. I know because I can see the positive reactions of the people around me. I also know that it's not me, but that Godly light shining through me that they are seeing. All because I have increased my awareness of it and let it shine in every area of my life. If it is true for me, it is true for anyone.
Have an excellent day : )
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